So in high school i swore that i wanted to be a hair dresser as my career so i went to boces and missed out on a lot of regular high school stuff so that i could be set right outta high school i had no intentions on going to college it just wasnt for me. so i got a job the summer after i graduated and realized that although i was good at what i did i HATED going to work everyday so i decided that i would go tocollege.. and have been there ever since. had no idea what i wanted to do with my life so i got my associates in liberal arts and still didnt know what i wanted to do with my life... So i went back to BOCES and finished my medical assisting 'degree' and absolutly loved every min of it. and loved working too. So i thought hey if i love this as much as i do maybe i shold be come a nurse and do the same stuff and get paid more. Well heres the catch guys i have to go back to school. So im back in school getting the prereqs. that i need to get in and well im FAILING miserably. i know im not applying myself b/c i HATE what im doing. So i got a part time job as a medical assistnat and i just love it!
I really want to quit school and just do this as my career but i feel like a failure. FH whole family is extreamly accomplished and i just dont fit in. His brother got his RN his sisters getting her masters degree and FH has his batchlors and got it in 3 years no less. And non of them can understand how hard school is for me. I cry about this just about everyday. Parents told me making 10-13 dollars an hour isnt a career. So thats why im still in school cuz i feel like i just dont cut it if ya know what i mean. So my ? is WHAT DO I DO???
With my grades i wont get accepted into any other programs (wasnt going for nursing was trying for X-Ray tech) and i feel like maybe i just need some time away from school and maybe go back in a few years and try again.
I also took an entrence exam to get into an LPN program at boces but i dont know how i did and wont know if they are even going to consider my application for another 3-4 weeks.. PLeASE HElP
Soon2BMrsD
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aww thanks!!! my friends just laugh and say... ' ur too young to have kids' and thats silly u want to be a mom. blah blah blah... its werid i guess. its not usual u hear a 21 year old say 'i want to be a mom'
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aww thanks!!! my friends just laugh and say... ' ur too young to have kids' and thats silly u want to be a mom. blah blah blah... its werid i guess. its not usual u hear a 21 year old say 'i want to be a mom'
I completely feel ya Megan! I cannot WAIT to have kids!!!! Someone once asked me 'what's your passion in life... what do you want to do?' My response was to love! Sounds silly I guess lol but that's what I have a 'passion' for. I just wanna spread love; there are so many people out there who don't have it! I'm super excited about becoming a mother... always have been! I want to have kids asap and to even adopt a few!
So you're not alone!
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Thanks jeanine, you make me feel better!!
im glad another youngin feels that way! i want to adopt a child also. i feel like theres too many babies in this world that dont have a loving home. my FH doesnt want to adopt so maybe lateron in life we can compromise! but he loves kids just as much as i do. he just wants to be stable before we bring a baby into the world! he makes me sain...money is not my thing, and neither is orginization!
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Posted by Soon2BMrsD ...money is not my thing, and neither is orginization!
HaHa I remember you saying once how you wrere the messy one, unlike your FH.
Ya, Ced isn't totally into adoption yet either but we never really had a serious convo about it. We'll see what happens when the time comes!
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im a SLOB!!! hehehe its so bad! were moving i dont even know where to start! i think im jsut going to buy jumbo boxes and throw it in thre and sort as i unpack!!! (hanging my head in shame as i laugh to myself)
