NWR: Need suggestions....

I'm trying to plan a night out with some girlfriends I haven't seen in awhile and would like to go somewhere lounge-ish.

I want to be able to get a decent glass of wine and sit and talk- but not go to a restaurant. No clubs or club like bars please (ie- Mulcahy's/ Nutty Irishman) But music would be great....

Is there a place like that on Long Island anywhere? Preferably Suffolk County?

Shandon Court- East Islip has music everynight
TJ Finlays- Bay Shore has a younger crowd they usually play music on a sound system.
Schillers- Bay Shore
Hogans Bay Shore- Like walking into a time warp but they do drunk Karoke
Half Penny -Bay Shore