NWR-Need your opinion-UPDATED

So FH just called me and we're getting together with our bridal party tomorrow night for dinner and drinks afterwards. Now, one of FH's groomsmen is dating this trick that I truly honestly cant stand! I dont want to come off like a biatch but I dont want to associate with her either (he separated from his wife whom I was really cool with-and I miss her ) ... so what I should do? I dont want to associate with her...so should I let her know how I feel or just be civil and try to avoid her...

**UPDATE**
So...just wanted to let you girls know that all went well on Saturday. We all had a blast! We did make a small talk, but other than that I was surrounded by other people which I was very happy about. She is still not one of my favorite people, but can definitely be 'tolerated'...

Always best to be civil and avoid her. My brother is kinda dating this girl i despise. He knows i can't stand her, but I am always cordial to her for the effort of keeping the peace. Why cause problems. If you tell her you dont like her, then your FH friend is going to have to defend her (you know any woman will make her man defend her to the end). Then it will possibly cause a riff between your FH and his friend. Trust me, I have seen this happen way too often.

Fake smile. Avoid her when possible.

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

I know...oh you have no idea how much I would like to just pull her hair once!

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And I thought you were so nice!!!!

be civil and stay away from her all night-

by the way you called her a trick-that is great

My brother's kinda gf is that girl who always has a bigger better story than the one someone else has just told. She's always like, oh yeah, well this one time I.....and she pulls some crazy story out of her A**. We all know she is full of crap. It is so hard not to just be like, 'You're an F'in Liar, Now shut up!'

But instead I listen nicely and try not to respond to her idiotic comments.

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

My brother's kinda gf is that girl who always has a bigger better story than the one someone else has just told. She's always like, oh yeah, well this one time I.....and she pulls some crazy story out of her A**. We all know she is full of crap. It is so hard not to just be like, 'You're an F'in Liar, Now shut up!'

But instead I listen nicely and try not to respond to her idiotic comments.

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Thats her too! She thinks who the f&%k she is!

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Posted by MrsFelix

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

I know...oh you have no idea how much I would like to just pull her hair once!

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And I thought you were so nice!!!!

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I am nice! Its just that she really has it on the edge with me...just one quick hard yank...

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

My brother's kinda gf is that girl who always has a bigger better story than the one someone else has just told. She's always like, oh yeah, well this one time I.....and she pulls some crazy story out of her A**. We all know she is full of crap. It is so hard not to just be like, 'You're an F'in Liar, Now shut up!'

But instead I listen nicely and try not to respond to her idiotic comments.

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Thats her too! She thinks who the f&%k she is!

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Oh jeez, they might be related!! LMAO!
I want to call her out all the time on her BullS**t, but I cant. Makes me nutty!

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

My brother's kinda gf is that girl who always has a bigger better story than the one someone else has just told. She's always like, oh yeah, well this one time I.....and she pulls some crazy story out of her A**. We all know she is full of crap. It is so hard not to just be like, 'You're an F'in Liar, Now shut up!'

But instead I listen nicely and try not to respond to her idiotic comments.

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OMG, I have an aunt like that. We only tolerate her for my uncle's sake. But trust me she's started a couple of battles within our family.

But what can you do. Some people just have no clue how F&*ing annoying they are.

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Posted by MrsFelix

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Posted by Tracy&Brian

My brother's kinda gf is that girl who always has a bigger better story than the one someone else has just told. She's always like, oh yeah, well this one time I.....and she pulls some crazy story out of her A**. We all know she is full of crap. It is so hard not to just be like, 'You're an F'in Liar, Now shut up!'

But instead I listen nicely and try not to respond to her idiotic comments.

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OMG, I have an aunt like that. We only tolerate her for my uncle's sake. But trust me she's started a couple of battles within our family.

But what can you do. Some people just have no clue how F&*ing annoying they are.

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I wish there was a NEON 'You're an annoying freak' that you could flash at people like this.

i know the right thing to do would be to avoid her - but when i loath someone they consume my whole being....i couldn't have her there.

politely ask FH to talk to GM and see if he wouldn't mind going solo - or at least not with her. blame it on your comfort level with the split and your friendship w/ his wife.

immature or not - when i don't like someone - its usually for a good reason....and i don't associate w/ people who twist me....

Of course be civil, you do not have to like her but there is no reason to be nasty to her...IMO

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Posted by mtdr1106

i know the right thing to do would be to avoid her - but when i loath someone they consume my whole being....i couldn't have her there.

politely ask FH to talk to GM and see if he wouldn't mind going solo - or at least not with her. blame it on your comfort level with the split and your friendship w/ his wife.

immature or not - when i don't like someone - its usually for a good reason....and i don't associate w/ people who twist me....

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Same thought exactly. Thank you.

Sylvia, it's not worth it to get into a fight...it'll just look petty on your part b/c of your friendship with his estranged wife.

don't let her bother you and have a great time. if she really is just a trick, it's soooo not worth your time or attention.

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Posted by stephanief

Of course be civil, you do not have to like her but there is no reason to be nasty to her...IMO

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Never said anything about being nasty to her. Its hard when you dont like somebody to enjoy their company. Im going to be surrounded by people I like and are special to me and she sort of 'puts' herself out there as if shes hot $hit, when she really is not...I really dont want to start drama with her but I dont want to associate with her either. I think my post was more of a 'vent' looking for support from girls that have experienced this before...

I'd say be civil if you have to talk to her and ignore her the rest of the time.

Thanks girls! I will just go and have a good time and not even think about my resentment towards her...I'll behave

If not, you'll be hearing about some serious hair yanking on Monday! Just kidding.

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Posted by M&S Sept12006

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Posted by stephanief

Of course be civil, you do not have to like her but there is no reason to be nasty to her...IMO

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Never said anything about being nasty to her. Its hard when you dont like somebody to enjoy their company. Im going to be surrounded by people I like and are special to me and she sort of 'puts' herself out there as if shes hot $hit, when she really is not...I really dont want to start drama with her but I dont want to associate with her either. I think my post was more of a 'vent' looking for support from girls that have experienced this before...

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i agree - it has nothing to do with being nasty - its the EFFORT that you have to put into being NICE when you don't want to. i ignored a person for months and it was physically draining. i was never rude or disrespectful - but it would upset me to have to have her in my company.....if you really think its going to piss off your day - then see if something else can be worked out....

what does FH think??