Posted by M&S Sept12006
Thanks girls! I will just go and have a good time and not even think about my resentment towards her...I'll behave![]()
If not, you'll be hearing about some serious hair yanking on Monday!![]()
Just kidding.
Posted by mtdr1106
Posted by M&S Sept12006
Posted by stephanief
Of course be civil, you do not have to like her but there is no reason to be nasty to her...IMO
Never said anything about being nasty to her. Its hard when you dont like somebody to enjoy their company. Im going to be surrounded by people I like and are special to me and she sort of 'puts' herself out there as if shes hot $hit, when she really is not...I really dont want to start drama with her but I dont want to associate with her either. I think my post was more of a 'vent' looking for support from girls that have experienced this before...
i agree - it has nothing to do with being nasty - its the EFFORT that you have to put into being NICE when you don't want to. i ignored a person for months and it was physically draining. i was never rude or disrespectful - but it would upset me to have to have her in my company.....if you really think its going to piss off your day - then see if something else can be worked out....
what does FH think??
Posted by M&S Sept12006
Posted by mtdr1106
Posted by M&S Sept12006
Posted by stephanief
Of course be civil, you do not have to like her but there is no reason to be nasty to her...IMO
Never said anything about being nasty to her. Its hard when you dont like somebody to enjoy their company. Im going to be surrounded by people I like and are special to me and she sort of 'puts' herself out there as if shes hot $hit, when she really is not...I really dont want to start drama with her but I dont want to associate with her either. I think my post was more of a 'vent' looking for support from girls that have experienced this before...
i agree - it has nothing to do with being nasty - its the EFFORT that you have to put into being NICE when you don't want to. i ignored a person for months and it was physically draining. i was never rude or disrespectful - but it would upset me to have to have her in my company.....if you really think its going to piss off your day - then see if something else can be worked out....
what does FH think??
He thinks Im a drama queen...although he does see where I get those feelings about her from. But you know how guys are...nothing bothers them...
you don't need to be her best friend, but always be the better person and just be nice! FH's good friend was dating an absolute loser/cheater/biatch that i went to school w/, and i had to be a nice hostess when she came to my apartment. it was the hardest thing ever to make conversation w/ someone i hate (and mind you never would have associated w/ otherwise) but i did it to keep the piece!
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