NWR: Quick rant :(

So i know many of you do not know who i am as i am a newbie.. . I just really need to vent because it has been a crazy past couple of weeks and its nothing better but to tell strangers :)

FH's older sister live in PA and has been living with a brain tumor for the past 5+ years. We just heard that she is not doing well .. the doctors told her husband to prepare for the worst. FH is heart broken and going through a lot of 'should of' 'Could'of', etc. His family is not an emotional close family and i think he regrets not staying in touch with her and not seeing her since last thanksgiving..

So i had to keep it together for him when we heard this and I have been a complete wreck. Work has been so busy and stressful and then the wedding planning.. i have been a mess. I called my mom today and just broke down while driving and had to pull over!!!

I need a vacation... :(

Sorry to hear about this difficult time for you and FH. Hoping things take a turn for the better.

That sucks, I'm sorry you are going through this. I know how it feels when you have to be strong for FH, I'm sure a lot of us do. It's important that you find other outlets because you are stressed out too. Good luck with everything.

2012 girls are awesome, we are very good at listening to venting (if I do say so myself).

So sorry to hear about your FH's sister. Definitely feel free to vent to us whenever you need to.

Sorry to hear you are going through this

So sorry to hear your FSIL is so sick. A piece of advice my mom always reminds me of... Don't should on yourself. You cant take back or change the past. He did what was right for him at the time if he hasn't seen her in so long there must be a reason. PA certainly isn't far away, if he really feels the need to make amends with his sister maybe offer to take him to see her, it'll give you time in the car just the 2 of you to talk. Then he can see his sister and you'll have some time away from wedding planning.

Thanks so much everyone. I didn't even tell him about me breaking down today. I want him to come to me when he is ready to talk about it.

I am waiting for the right moment to talk to FH of when we should go visit her.. Hopefully next weekend. Ugh!! Guys are so difficult whenit comes to their feelings... Especially when it makes them cry and they feel embarrassed. He cried last weekend.. First time to see him cry .. Ugh

I'll let you all know if and when we are able to see her. F*** cancer!! :X