NWR: Relationship Question - UPDATE!

Pierre07 Posted: Nov 05, 2006 06:16 PM

Re: NWR: Relationship Question

sorry to hear that you are having this issue so close to your wedding date....i do understand what you are going though. With my ex he didnt want me to do any of that stuff, and i hated that....i can not deal with some who is going to try to change the person that i am.
Girls night out is a good thing to have every once in a while. I go out with my gf's once a month to dinner and to catch up on things, nothing harmful, and my FH doesnt think that there is anything wrong with that. Maybe you can tell him that this is something that you love doing, and that you dont think that its fair that he is trying to take that from you.......hope thing work out, and good luck. I just went to PreCana classes not too long ago and i think it might help out, but if he is set in his ways then it might not.....

MrsD06 Posted: Nov 05, 2006 06:44 PM

Re: NWR: Relationship Question

Posted by billandme

This isn't just about not going to the girls night out thing. I feel that he's trying to take something away from me that makes who I am. Does that make sense? I have no issue at all if he wants to go to a pub with his buddies to watch a game. I WANT him to be able to do that.........

are you saying he goes out with his friends but you are not 'allowed' to? Or he doesn't go out with his friends unless you are with him?

billandme Posted: Nov 05, 2006 07:09 PM

Re: NWR: Relationship Question

Posted by MrsD06

Posted by billandme

This isn't just about not going to the girls night out thing. I feel that he's trying to take something away from me that makes who I am. Does that make sense? I have no issue at all if he wants to go to a pub with his buddies to watch a game. I WANT him to be able to do that.........

are you saying he goes out with his friends but you are not 'allowed' to? Or he doesn't go out with his friends unless you are with him?

He doesn't go out with his friends unless we go together. He says it's not right.......we should be together. He says that he loves to do everything and experience everything together. I do too, but I still think we need our own time........