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christy Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:23 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:23 PM

NWR: rent or wait to buy....

Ok, I currently live in a basement apartment in a relatives house. I am welcome to stay (for very cheap rent) after the wedding for as long as I like. This way we can save for a house. But, I would really like to just get an apartment and move out right after the wedding so I can be with my FH. I really want out of the basement, but I know it would be smarter to stay and save for a house. What would you do?

OctBride03 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:27 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:27 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

I would stay. JMO. Just think of how much money you could save! And the house you could get!

No one wants to live in a basement, but it sure will help you in the long run!

But like I said JMO.

Stacey1403 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:27 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:27 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

If you guys can **** it up for a little longer I would try and save for the house!

Stacey1403 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:28 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:28 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

I can't believe you can't spell suc*

tarakinspa Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:28 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:28 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

I wish I had a backup like you did so i could take advantage of it, it is so hard to find a house right now. Guess it depends if you get lucky but i wish I didnt have to stress over the wedding and a place to live all at the same time.

christy Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:28 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:28 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

I know saving is the sensible thing to do. I am looking so forward to living with him, and I dont know how much privacy we will have living downstairs from my family! Ahhhhh but a house would be wonderful!

kelly4 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:36 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:36 PM

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IMO I'd save! We did for 1 year and ended up with a house we love and NO RENT!!!!! It's all ours! But, you have to do what you are happy with. If you can **** it up for another year, then I'd say definately save for a house. I f you hate it where you are, then I'd move out ASAP. You have to weigh your pros and cons!

Best of luck!
Kelly

kelly4 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:38 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:38 PM

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LOL Stacey! I wrote suc* also and it came out as **** also! What's so wrong about ****! Suck, ****, ****! (ok, sorry, I'm getting a bit out of hand!)

Kelly

LOL again! They let one pass! (edited to say this)

NAN7/03 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:38 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:38 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

I can relate! My fiance and I live in a studio apartment and it's really tight. But...we think staying here is the best way to save a reasonable down payment on a house. Good luck!

Stacey1403 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:40 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:40 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

Hee Hee Kelly

babeyblu16 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:41 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 09:41 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

My FH and I are in the same situation. It is so expensive to live on LI. We are going to stay in the basement of a relatives house as long as we can to save money. Especially since the wedding is so expensive!!!

tarakinspa Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:10 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:10 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

We are both still at home, saving money but tortuous!

112903 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:15 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:15 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

IMO stay as long as you can and save what you can...Try it out for awhile and see how it goes

bride082003 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:19 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:19 PM

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WAIT WAIT WAIT to buy. renting is such a waste especially if you can make it where you are for cheaper....

Buttafli1277 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:21 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 10:21 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

We are both at home too. THere is really nothing out there right now worth the money they are asking for. I'm getting a little stressed out about the living situation. We both rather not rent, but if we don't find a house by the wedding we might have to.

Marcela1654 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:01 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:01 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

I would stay and save!

chefe Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:03 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:03 PM

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Sounds like you have a good deal, so if you can hold out and save for a house, do that. With housing prices the way they are, if you moved into an apartment now, you'd just have to wait longer for your house.

LnP2003 Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:26 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:26 PM

Re: NWR: rent or wait to buy....

christy, that is only your choice to make, but i will tell you what FH and i have decided to do. Before the wedding & for the first couple of months we are going to try to live in an apartment that is a month to month, rather than one that we have to sign a lease for so that we can buy a house for us to live in with our future children!

good luck in your choice!!!!!!!!!

SomedayBride Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:42 PM+

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Posted: Dec 17, 2002 11:42 PM

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Stay with your relatives. It's not like you'll be living in their den, you have your own apartment right? What an awesome way to save money! I wish someone in my family would extend such an offer to us :(

wacky Posted: Dec 18, 2002 06:30 AM+

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Posted: Dec 18, 2002 06:30 AM