Hi ladies! I need some help settling an arguement. This may seem like a silly question...and such a girlie one too. How long are you away from FH before you miss him? Not cry yourself to sleep missing him, but slightly lonely and wishing he was w/ you. I told you it was stupid! But please, please help me win this arguement! Thanks!
Jen2999
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All the time. FH was military for 6 years and we have dealt with MANY months apart so now I get such separation anxiety even when he goes away for a day or two or I cant see him for some reason. It is really really unhealthy but until I get used to not having that fear of him being deployed (he just got out in august), I think he is stuck with me attached to his hip hahahaha.
Wintersbride
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Posted by Jen2999
All the time. FH was military for 6 years and we have dealt with MANY months apart so now I get such separation anxiety even when he goes away for a day or two or I cant see him for some reason. It is really really unhealthy but until I get used to not having that fear of him being deployed (he just got out in august), I think he is stuck with me attached to his hip hahahaha.
Aw...I am glad he's out though. I can definitely understand that. I think it will calm down, he just really got out. Soak up as much time as possible!
cindyandkevin
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I'd say I always miss him when he's not around. Like you said, not crying my eyes out miss him, but I always wish he was with me. Not that I have separation anxiety, I just love being with him and wished we never had to be apart. Sappy, I know!!!
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I'd say I always miss him when he's not around. Like you said, not crying my eyes out miss him, but I always wish he was with me. Not that I have separation anxiety, I just love being with him and wished we never had to be apart. Sappy, I know!!!
Now, do you tell him you miss him? I am the same way. For the most part he is too, but sometimes he does the man thing and says 'you just saw me a few days ago'...like i am crying my eyes out or something.
Kim51103
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Few hours......and i spend pracically ALL DAY with him!!!!!
CKJ906
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Everytime I'm not with him. Just like the girls said i'm not crying, all upset over it, but I miss him when he's not around
Wintersbride
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HA! So far I am winning!
glinda_goodwitch
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I said a couple of days. If he's away at a conference, I enjoy the 'me time' for the first day. I eat junk food and watch girly movies I've been meaning to watch. But, after the first day, I get lonely because we do spend so much time together.
October Bliss
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I would have to say a day. Not that we ever go a day without speaking, but unfortunately we sometimes go two-three days without seeing each other and it certainly bothers me to know I won't see him on a given day. Not crying my eyes out, but I just feel like something is missing on those days when I know I won't see him.
marymoon
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I miss him whenever he's not in my arms
kissy27
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Honestly, it takes me about a week. For the past 2 years, FH & I only see each other on the weekends, so we are use to the separation. Of course I miss him everyday but I know this is the way it has to be...It takes me a good week though to really miss him
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I'd say I always miss him when he's not around. Like you said, not crying my eyes out miss him, but I always wish he was with me. Not that I have separation anxiety, I just love being with him and wished we never had to be apart. Sappy, I know!!!
me too! Even when I am at work I find myself missing him and hoping we can go out to lunch or something. and every morning we kid that we are gonna call in sick and just hang out - yeah I wish!
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Posted by SuzBride
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I'd say I always miss him when he's not around. Like you said, not crying my eyes out miss him, but I always wish he was with me. Not that I have separation anxiety, I just love being with him and wished we never had to be apart. Sappy, I know!!!
me too! Even when I am at work I find myself missing him and hoping we can go out to lunch or something. and every morning we kid that we are gonna call in sick and just hang out - yeah I wish!
I guess it does help that we work at the same university, so we do get to go take coffee breaks and have lunch together sometimes.
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i miss him when hes not around - if he stays up late to watch tv i miss him and when he pulls away from work i miss him. i miss him all the time!!
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Although its great to have my own 'Janie only' time... I do love spending time with him and miss him when we arent together. Even if hes in the next room.. I will yell out 'Anthony!!!' He would reply.. and I'd say 'I love you!!' He does the same for me sometimes and I think its adorable.
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Maybe it's that I'm married for a while..but honestly it would take a few days or more. We have a lot of distraction in our lives and keep stupid busy. Having said that, we call each other all the time and tell each other how much we miss each other all the time.
leese
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I only see him once a week. So I tend to miss him like the night before I know I'll see him.
Ask me again when we are together all the time and I am sure it will shrink!
To be honest, tho, I do like my independence. Sometimes I get sad that my friends get to spend a whole weekend with their boys...but I really treasure my alone time. I like to do errands by myself, I only like to shop alone... I guess it's all those years without a boyfriend!
enjft
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A couple of days for me we all need a break.
LaurenluvsTJ
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We only see each other on the weekends, so I am used to going a week without seeing him. Of course I wish we could spend more time together, but it takes a few days until I really miss him a lot. I wonder what its going to be like when we see each other every day.