Nwr: Vent

Okay sorry ladies I need to vent a little:

The short back story is that last year around this time my FBIL got out of rehab for drug addiction and it was really hard for FH bc that was his best friend. He had no idea that FBIL even had a problem. When he got out of rehab he was also told that he was not allowed to drink bc he would be jumping from one substance to another also he had a slight problem before rehab w drinking as well but pills were the problem.

Well the last 3 months since he as been dating this gf of his he has feel of the wagon with drinking (for all we know) like 6 times. FH is beyond upset. He is so fed with his brother that he really wants nothing to do with him. Saturday night him and his brother had a conversation and it seems like the mom is a drunk also who has been hiding it from everyone. So the brother was suppose to meet up with her yesterday to talk to her and have lunch. Well he called his father up and told his father that he needs money put into his back account so that he can go food shopping with the gf. Well guess what he never made it to the food store but made it to get booze.

I don't know what to tell FH bc he doesn't want to live there with his brother any more bc not only has he kept falling off the wagon he has turned into 'that guy' that when he gets a gf his WHOLE world revolves around her. Pretty much since day one that they started dating she has been living at the house but he doesn't see that as moving to fast as well.

He has not lost a single thing during this whole year. When his house was being forclosed on his father stepped up and saved the house from being lost, all the bills that hadn't been paid were paid my my FFIL and my FH and I. My FH lost his car for three months bc FBIL never paid the car insurance but FH was giving him money and turns out was paying more money for things then what he was suppose to be FBIL was taking the money and using it for drugs.

I am trying to be as supportive as I possibly can for FH but my feelings of hurt are taking over. FBIL doesn't see how bad he has hurt FH and lost his respect not only as his best friend but as his brother as well. I feel bad that I truly I feel that he should really hit rock bottom. He didn't hit rock bottom last time bc he never lost anything. The only thing that he lost was the right to control his own money but that doesn't matter bc he is still finding a way to drink.

Sorry bout the rant.