NWR: Vent FSIL

ughhhh
i know i b*tch about her alot but after this week, I am absolutely DONE with her!!!!!!

She keeps asking people how much $ my parents gave me bc they havent given her anything yet. (first off- none of ya business!!! and when you tell my family you hate us, why would you expect cash to be given to you?!?! Maybe try a longer engagement and get a JOB to actually PAY like we did)

She said that my family ruined her dream wedding and blames me for everything blah blah. (so her impromptu sept 2012 mexico wedding is cancelled. Now that its not happening she's saying that she picked labor day weekend for ME bc i have off summers and now i'm crapping on her when she only thought of me. Yea, bc spending 4 g right before my wedding, and then traveling for 6+ hours on my bday and then again on my last day of summer break is really for MY benefit! Not to mention, Id have to fly home labor day monday, prob most expensive and ridic day to fly)

oh, and my fave- when I bought my dress, I showed her a pic and she says 'I almost bought that dress. EVERYONE in the store told me how great it looks on me. I'm surprised you even got that one' I just ignored her, but now she's telling mutual friends 'I should have bought that dress, just so I can get married first and then tell Kristy to go f*** herself'
Charming, right?!

It's a hate now. I wish my brother would wise up. He's the only guy nice enough (and dumb enough) to take in such a selfish and nasty, unemployed, sociopathic loser like her!!!!!! She is, by far, the most disgusting excuse for a human being I have ever met

I called my brother and really promoted the pre-nup deal if he decides to rally go through with this.
I weeded out all the nasty negative people from my life. It sucks that the only reason I can't get rid of her is bc she's my brother's fiancee

and NO! not the brother getting married next month hahahahaha

Wow Kristy! I dont know how u deal. From all your vents about her I cant stand her! How is your brother marrying such a horrible and spiteful b****??? So sorry u have to go through this.

Shes crazy Kristy, just keep doing what you are. You are your parents daughter, techniqualyl they shoudl be paying for your whole wedding not saying htey shoudl be etiquate wise, and she is marrying your brother, in which case your parents gift ot her would be much less agian due to ettiquate. Jus tkeep surrounding yourself wiht positive people, hopefully your brother realizes what he is getting into before he takes the plunge!

xo

thanks girls!!
it just sucks that she's so destructive by doing everything passive-aggressively. Like she tells these things to my friends or even family KNOWING it will get back to us. But, how do I confront her and throw people under the bus? She wants us to know what she says and does bc she's spiteful like that. The ball is in her court bc we can't do anything about it.
Last time I said something to her, she denied everything when I had HEARD and SEEN her say/do things. She's a nutbag!

wow... does your brother not see what a psycho she is? She's obviously unhappy with herself and that's why she's doing everything possible to try to get under your skin.

It's reading things like this that makes so thankful that I have the FILs that I do (and that my brother doesn't have a gf ) But it really sucks that you have to go through this. At least your being the better person and not going back at her!

Ugh! Seriously tell her to mind her own business about $$$, considering she makes none! And I doubt she 'only thought of you' What a psycho!!!!! Good luck.. if you need some tough love, us 2013 brides have your back!

when I saw FSIL vent and your name as the one that posted it I knew I had to read it. This girl is completely nuts. Kinda reminds me of my sister-in-law (thank god they are in another state) You should ask her how much money her parents are giving her for her wedding. If I were your parents I'd give her a check for $1 and be like here we gave you something

haha thank you girls for making me smile!!!!

I am sooo happy and grateful to have my other FSIL!!! I can not wait until she's officially my sister!!!!! I love that the 2 of us are planning weddings at the same time. The other one wants nothing to do with asking about our weddings or telling us anything about hers. o well!
And I get along great with Matt's SIL also. Eh, i guess 2 outta 3 ain't too bad

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Posted by Soon2BMrsB2013

OMG what a meany (I gave up cursing for lent hehe). I am so sorry your dealing with this unneeded drama. I hate people who dont have jobs and think things should be given to them. I've worked hard my whole life for the things I have and why should anyone else be any different!!!

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seriously!!!! she's going to be 40 this year. She was a bar hostess working 6 DAYS A MONTH for like a year or so!!! and would call in sick at least 1 of those days. They finally fired her thieving butt!
My brother bought a house without her, he bought her a car and signed her onto his health ins to take care of her. ughhhhh

but then has the audacity to say 'I'll be damned if your baby sister gets married before me' Lady, I'm not a baby. I worked more at mcdonalds when i was 14 than she did her whole life!

I don't understand women! Weddings are supposed to be about coming together as a family…not fighting.

And if she’s 40…has she been married before?? Come on honey…you aren’t a young, blushing bride. You’re a grown a$$ woman. If you can’t afford a wedding, then do something small – elope or go to city hall and have a dinner reception.

She’s obviously jealous of you and your situation. You have to do what makes sense for you. I would try talking to your brother and see what he has to say.

Good luck hun!

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Posted by nyrvixen
If I were your parents I'd give her a check for $1 and be like here we gave you something

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I LOVE THIS!!

WOW...what a B**** ....oh man i would have lost it on her and took a stiletto heel and shove it up where the sun dont shine

But i would tell her off and say that you dont need her opinion at all..how does your brother deal with that ....and your poor parents

Im sorry hun i know u where having problems with her but omg thats really bad

im in the same boat as you!

my brother is marrying this iiiiiiiiidiot, who has drainined out whole family. She is dumb, fat, and rude, and cant save a penny. and they are getting married in sept of this year. it will be a white trash wedding and she asked me to be in it. all she does is talk about wedding this blah blah blah. news flash sweetheart, no one gives an efff


I have learned the best way to deal is totally ignore. dont engage in ANY thing with her, and just dont say anything so she has no reason to fight back. Women like this are insecure and need to put other people down to make themselves feel better.

and the less you think about her the better you will feel.

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Posted by fdnybride163

im in the same boat as you!

my brother is marrying this iiiiiiiiidiot, who has drainined out whole family. She is dumb, fat, and rude, and cant save a penny. and they are getting married in sept of this year. it will be a white trash wedding and she asked me to be in it. all she does is talk about wedding this blah blah blah. news flash sweetheart, no one gives an efff

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tell us how you really feel about this chick

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Posted by mattandjess2013

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Posted by fdnybride163

im in the same boat as you!

my brother is marrying this iiiiiiiiidiot, who has drainined out whole family. She is dumb, fat, and rude, and cant save a penny. and they are getting married in sept of this year. it will be a white trash wedding and she asked me to be in it. all she does is talk about wedding this blah blah blah. news flash sweetheart, no one gives an efff

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tell us how you really feel about this chick

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thy got pregnant at 18, didnt haVE a dime, moved in w my parents and she was the most disrepectul, obnoxious, worthless piece of crap every. (my brother wasnt much better) they lived for FREE for 4 yrs and my parents helped them w everything ( almost too much help) she called my mom a bltch one day and I almost lost it on her.... she lives in lala land and thinks that everyone is excited that she is getting married... umm you bought the sears cz ring yourself and told my brother that he was going to marry you sorry crazy no one wants to go to your wedding