ughhhh i know i b*tch about her alot but after this week, I am absolutely DONE with her!!!!!!
She keeps asking people how much $ my parents gave me bc they havent given her anything yet. (first off- none of ya business!!! and when you tell my family you hate us, why would you expect cash to be given to you?!?! Maybe try a longer engagement and get a JOB to actually PAY like we did)
She said that my family ruined her dream wedding and blames me for everything blah blah. (so her impromptu sept 2012 mexico wedding is cancelled. Now that its not happening she's saying that she picked labor day weekend for ME bc i have off summers and now i'm crapping on her when she only thought of me. Yea, bc spending 4 g right before my wedding, and then traveling for 6+ hours on my bday and then again on my last day of summer break is really for MY benefit! Not to mention, Id have to fly home labor day monday, prob most expensive and ridic day to fly)
oh, and my fave- when I bought my dress, I showed her a pic and she says 'I almost bought that dress. EVERYONE in the store told me how great it looks on me. I'm surprised you even got that one' I just ignored her, but now she's telling mutual friends 'I should have bought that dress, just so I can get married first and then tell Kristy to go f*** herself' Charming, right?!
It's a hate now. I wish my brother would wise up. He's the only guy nice enough (and dumb enough) to take in such a selfish and nasty, unemployed, sociopathic loser like her!!!!!! She is, by far, the most disgusting excuse for a human being I have ever met
I called my brother and really promoted the pre-nup deal if he decides to rally go through with this. I weeded out all the nasty negative people from my life. It sucks that the only reason I can't get rid of her is bc she's my brother's fiancee
and NO! not the brother getting married next month hahahahaha
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Oh man that sucks!! There's always someone in the family... My brother acts like this. I'm waiting for him to ask me who's paying for my wedding... he acts my mom all these stupid questions about my finances, etc, and she tells me haha Maybe if he worked for it he'd have as much plus if my mother chooses to give us $ for the wedding it's not his fault, he should ask his fiancés parents if they want $ for their eventual impromptu wedding. Ugh it's like the same story! They're almost 40 too!
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Posted by fdnybride163 thy got pregnant at 18, didnt haVE a dime, moved in w my parents and she was the most disrepectul, obnoxious, worthless piece of crap every. (my brother wasnt much better) they lived for FREE for 4 yrs and my parents helped them w everything ( almost too much help) she called my mom a bltch one day and I almost lost it on her.... she lives in lala land and thinks that everyone is excited that she is getting married... umm you bought the sears cz ring yourself and told my brother that he was going to marry you sorry crazy no one wants to go to your wedding
wow! i don't blame you for flipping out - i'd probably do the same thing!
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Ugh!! What an A$$! At least it's your brother's wife... My FSIL is my FH's sister who really is a psycho nut!!!! I can't even pretend to like her lol Hopefully your brother will see what you guys see...
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I don't understand women! Weddings are supposed to be about coming together as a family…not fighting.
And if she’s 40…has she been married before?? Come on honey…you aren’t a young, blushing bride. You’re a grown a$$ woman. If you can’t afford a wedding, then do something small – elope or go to city hall and have a dinner reception.
She’s obviously jealous of you and your situation. You have to do what makes sense for you. I would try talking to your brother and see what he has to say.
Good luck hun!
Totally agree! A wedding is the blending of two families in one. She is just trying to make everything about her instead of celebrating for everyone.
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Posted by nyrvixen If I were your parents I'd give her a check for $1 and be like here we gave you something
I LOVE THIS!!
Ditto!
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im in the same boat as you!
my brother is marrying this iiiiiiiiidiot, who has drainined out whole family. She is dumb, fat, and rude, and cant save a penny. and they are getting married in sept of this year. it will be a white trash wedding and she asked me to be in it. all she does is talk about wedding this blah blah blah. news flash sweetheart, no one gives an efff
I have learned the best way to deal is totally ignore. dont engage in ANY thing with her, and just dont say anything so she has no reason to fight back. Women like this are insecure and need to put other people down to make themselves feel better.
and the less you think about her the better you will feel.
Thank you so much! Are we sharing the same FSIL? Ugh. I understand completely. Except mine made it very clear that i will have NO part of her wedding. Hahah. It stinks
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Aww Kristy!! I am so sorry you're going through this! We all have that one person in our lives! My FH's sister in law has always been very nasty with me and when they got engaged she even had my FBIL talk to my FH and tell him we had to wait to get engaged until after that are married and they had a two and a half year engagement AND we were dating the same amount of time. There are so many other horrendous stories I can tell you but I will keep it private (if you want to know i'll fm you lolol) you never know who's lurking these boards. Right after I got engaged my FMIL asked me if I would tell her things about my wedding but I was COMPLETELY kept out of everything in hers and I mean EVERYTHINGGGG!! I said yes and I am honestly trying but it is sooooo hard most of the time. I hope your brother wises up so he doesnt end up having to go through divorce procedings later because thats what is going to seem will happen, either that or you would see your brother at all after the wedding.
Good luck with everything hun and we are always here to listen.
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Ugh I hate passive aggressive people!!! The best thing you can do is ignore the BS. Tell the people who are coming back and telling you the s*** she's talking that... It's stressing you out! If they want to help you, they can stop relaying the messages. And better yet, your friends/family should tell FSIL that they also dont want to hear her negative/under-handed comments about you and your wedding. Good luck and remember.... You're better than that
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If I could curse on here I would. Are u fkn kidding me. Oh no where the hell Does she get off on saying that Ahe should of bought this dress to these friends. Gimme a break. She needs to get a life. You brother needs to get rid of her. I mean how many times is she gonna ask you if your parents give you money. If they do or not. It it's none of her business and your the daughter your their daughter and Ina perfect world where we all were rich they would be paying and her parents would be for her nonsense wedding. So Ahe needs to get punched in the face and I'm having a bad week I would love to release some anger. I'm sorry you have to deal with this because you love your brother and u wish he would just get rid of her. What does he see in her? I mean she sounds like a sociopath. Regardless of what I'm blabbing about your. Your brother needs to get a pre nump. Because this is just ridiculous and obserd. Your too sweet and nice to be dealing with this. And you don't need added stress to the stress of the wedding. Thank goodness you have your other FSIL!
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If I could curse on here I would. Are u fkn kidding me. Oh no where the hell Does she get off on saying that Ahe should of bought this dress to these friends. Gimme a break. She needs to get a life. You brother needs to get rid of her. I mean how many times is she gonna ask you if your parents give you money. If they do or not. It it's none of her business and your the daughter your their daughter and Ina perfect world where we all were rich they would be paying and her parents would be for her nonsense wedding. So Ahe needs to get punched in the face and I'm having a bad week I would love to release some anger. I'm sorry you have to deal with this because you love your brother and u wish he would just get rid of her. What does he see in her? I mean she sounds like a sociopath. Regardless of what I'm blabbing about your. Your brother needs to get a pre nump. Because this is just ridiculous and obserd. Your too sweet and nice to be dealing with this. And you don't need added stress to the stress of the wedding. Thank goodness you have your other FSIL!
you crack me up!!!
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Posted by fdnybride163
im in the same boat as you!
my brother is marrying this iiiiiiiiidiot, who has drainined out whole family. She is dumb, fat, and rude, and cant save a penny. and they are getting married in sept of this year. it will be a white trash wedding and she asked me to be in it. all she does is talk about wedding this blah blah blah. news flash sweetheart, no one gives an efff
tell us how you really feel about this chick
lmfaoooooooooo!
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Posted by JenniBella
If I could curse on here I would. Are u fkn kidding me. Oh no where the hell Does she get off on saying that Ahe should of bought this dress to these friends. Gimme a break. She needs to get a life. You brother needs to get rid of her. I mean how many times is she gonna ask you if your parents give you money. If they do or not. It it's none of her business and your the daughter your their daughter and Ina perfect world where we all were rich they would be paying and her parents would be for her nonsense wedding. So Ahe needs to get punched in the face and I'm having a bad week I would love to release some anger. I'm sorry you have to deal with this because you love your brother and u wish he would just get rid of her. What does he see in her? I mean she sounds like a sociopath. Regardless of what I'm blabbing about your. Your brother needs to get a pre nump. Because this is just ridiculous and obserd. Your too sweet and nice to be dealing with this. And you don't need added stress to the stress of the wedding. Thank goodness you have your other FSIL!
you crack me up!!!
I love that I can picture her saying all of this in her accent.. BROOOOOOOOOOOOOOKLYN!!! Watch out Kristy, Jenn is about to go after this chick! LMAO
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Posted by KristyANDMatt224
Posted by JenniBella
If I could curse on here I would. Are u fkn kidding me. Oh no where the hell Does she get off on saying that Ahe should of bought this dress to these friends. Gimme a break. She needs to get a life. You brother needs to get rid of her. I mean how many times is she gonna ask you if your parents give you money. If they do or not. It it's none of her business and your the daughter your their daughter and Ina perfect world where we all were rich they would be paying and her parents would be for her nonsense wedding. So Ahe needs to get punched in the face and I'm having a bad week I would love to release some anger. I'm sorry you have to deal with this because you love your brother and u wish he would just get rid of her. What does he see in her? I mean she sounds like a sociopath. Regardless of what I'm blabbing about your. Your brother needs to get a pre nump. Because this is just ridiculous and obserd. Your too sweet and nice to be dealing with this. And you don't need added stress to the stress of the wedding. Thank goodness you have your other FSIL!
you crack me up!!!
I love that I can picture her saying all of this in her accent.. BROOOOOOOOOOOOOOKLYN!!! Watch out Kristy, Jenn is about to go after this chick! LMAO
GO BROOKLYN!!!
Kristy, I'm so sorry you are still dealing with this Sh*t. You don't deserve it. Hopefully, your brother sees it soon because she sounds like a real 'You know What' You keep your head up and don't let her issues get you down. She's clearly VERY jealous of you. And please vent away, that's what we are here for.
