NWR Vent-- Long
I havent been on as much as I would like b/c I have been losing my mind lately with work and other issues. But I really need to vent -- always makes me feel better.
Some of you know, FH has two kids. He has custody of them -- which says a lot about the mother. I have never gotten along with her, but have tried really hard to keep the peace. A bit of background, she doesnt pay a dime towards supporting her kids and is rarely involved in their school and extracurricular activities. Her only responsibility is to watch them on Tues and Thurs -- as I work from home the other days of the week.
For the last 3 weeks she has refused to watch them-- claiming she hurt her foot (lame excuse for neglecting your kids). We have been getting sitters, asking family members and I have been staying home more than usual to make sure someone was with the kids. This week she was supposed to start watching them again -- and low and behold she refuses last night! I texted her -- explaining that she was really screwing me over. She still refused to watch them. Whatever, I managed to work from home in the morning and get someone to watch them in the afternoon. But I was totally inconvenienced and stressed about meeting work deadlines.
Moving on...I get to cheerleading with FH's daughter tonight and she was there with her beast of a cousin. I couldnt help myself and when she walked by me I said...'oh, I guess your foot is fine now.' She flipped out over this words were said....and her cousin went to attack me!! FH had to jump in the middle to prevent her from hitting me!
Then FH's daughter wasnt participating and kept walking off the field. I took her by the hand and told her she needed to go back and practice. The mother starts screaming that I better not touch her child. I was mortified, she was making such a scene.
I am irrate right now. This woman does nothing other than babysit her kids -- and then throw it in our face as if she is doing us a favor. She then complains that I do too much with her kids! I literally have been running around like a chicken without a head lately trying to manage a full-time career and getting the kids to and from where they need to be (summer school, camp sports etc) -- while she has been sitting home!!! Yes, sitting home. She doesnt even have a job!!
I almost wish she would have hit me tonight, so I could have pressed charges. She would have never been able to make bail!!
Thans for listening. My life sounds like a soap opera sometimes. I hope FH appreciates how much I love him -- because my life was so drama free before him LOL
Some of you know, FH has two kids. He has custody of them -- which says a lot about the mother. I have never gotten along with her, but have tried really hard to keep the peace. A bit of background, she doesnt pay a dime towards supporting her kids and is rarely involved in their school and extracurricular activities. Her only responsibility is to watch them on Tues and Thurs -- as I work from home the other days of the week.
For the last 3 weeks she has refused to watch them-- claiming she hurt her foot (lame excuse for neglecting your kids). We have been getting sitters, asking family members and I have been staying home more than usual to make sure someone was with the kids. This week she was supposed to start watching them again -- and low and behold she refuses last night! I texted her -- explaining that she was really screwing me over. She still refused to watch them. Whatever, I managed to work from home in the morning and get someone to watch them in the afternoon. But I was totally inconvenienced and stressed about meeting work deadlines.
Moving on...I get to cheerleading with FH's daughter tonight and she was there with her beast of a cousin. I couldnt help myself and when she walked by me I said...'oh, I guess your foot is fine now.' She flipped out over this words were said....and her cousin went to attack me!! FH had to jump in the middle to prevent her from hitting me!
Then FH's daughter wasnt participating and kept walking off the field. I took her by the hand and told her she needed to go back and practice. The mother starts screaming that I better not touch her child. I was mortified, she was making such a scene.
I am irrate right now. This woman does nothing other than babysit her kids -- and then throw it in our face as if she is doing us a favor. She then complains that I do too much with her kids! I literally have been running around like a chicken without a head lately trying to manage a full-time career and getting the kids to and from where they need to be (summer school, camp sports etc) -- while she has been sitting home!!! Yes, sitting home. She doesnt even have a job!!
I almost wish she would have hit me tonight, so I could have pressed charges. She would have never been able to make bail!!
Thans for listening. My life sounds like a soap opera sometimes. I hope FH appreciates how much I love him -- because my life was so drama free before him LOL
