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NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)

Original post by KickinDandelions

So...maybe I'm just weird..but here goes a story I have to share with all of you..

FH and I work together in the same group but he started on the tech side and I started on the business side. Since then, he's joined the business side but still talks to his old techie co-workers. Now..maybe he doesn't realize it...but I know he's a natural flirt. I know I am too, but what kills me is that he refuses to admit it! So I've been telling him about this one girl we work with. She's seen the two of us together, and every time she passes by him, she smiles and giggles and says hi and and makes small talk. So I figure they're close and that I should be nice to her. I see her walking down the hallway, I say hi. When I see her about to come through the doorway, I ALWAYS hold the door and say hi. She never says a word to me. Doesn't even look at me. Sometimes, I swear she's giving me a dirty look!

So I tell FH all this and he tells me I'm crazy...that I'm too jealous and it's all in my head...

..until yesterday
FH and I are waiting for the elevator facing opposite directions and I see him look up, smile, and say hi..and I hear someone behind me say hi and ask how he is. So I turn around and smile and say hi...and realize it's this girl! As soon as I turned around, I saw her face change COMPLETELY. She scowled, closed her lips, and walked right by us. I turned to FH and he said..that was weird..I cannot believe she'd be so rude to you...WELL DUH!!! I WAS RIGHT!!!

Even now..he's still about how this girl could change her facial expression and mood like ...

SEE? I'M NOT CRAZY!! it's just that no one believes me
DGoldfarb0776 Posted:

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lol I love that.. glad FH was also there to see it happen

GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

hahaha and you got yours she obviously knew you were with him thats why she would never say anything to you or give you dirty looks...must've bothered her to see you two together HAHAHAHAHAHA



i was giggling all last night every time it popped into my head.



Yeah, it is pretty hilarious that she's getting all upset because you have your man and she doesn't
KickinDandelions Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

hahaha thats great, now when you see her you should still say hi but with a smirk on your face like HAHAHA B****



that's exactly what i did today! hahah...
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

hahaha and you got yours she obviously knew you were with him thats why she would never say anything to you or give you dirty looks...must've bothered her to see you two together HAHAHAHAHAHA



i was giggling all last night every time it popped into my head.



hahaha thats great, now when you see her you should still say hi but with a smirk on your face like HAHAHA B****



I agreee, that would REALLY rile her up
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

hahaha and you got yours she obviously knew you were with him thats why she would never say anything to you or give you dirty looks...must've bothered her to see you two together HAHAHAHAHAHA



i was giggling all last night every time it popped into my head.



Yeah, it is pretty hilarious that she's getting all upset because you have your man and she doesn't



its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves
graezie Posted:

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dang girl!!! i believe you!!!!
guys can be slow sometimes... hmmm... correction, most of the time!

KickinDandelions Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves



seriously! sigh..this isn't the 1st time it's happened either. where he used to work there were a couple girls chasing after him...

GET AWAY FROM MY MAN!! haha..if you girls knew me you'd laugh as well..i'm so not intimidating...i'm like a big pomeranian

Autumn08 Posted:

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My FH had remained friends with a few of his x's. When I say X I mean serious relationships and casual dating. I didn't mind at al except for one girl we'll call her 'C'. Something about the way she acted towards him and the way he felt he still needed to make her happy just seemed weird to me. Then after one year of dating he calls me up and tells me 'C' was invited to two weddings and he will be going with her as her date! Needless to say I was not happy and had some words with him. He said that the weddings were friends of his. So where was his invitation? Then he said if he didn't go she'd have to bring her cousins boyfriend. Why should that be my problem? I knew exactly what was going on and two years later he admitted to me that she was trying to get back together with him. I was hurt because he told me that I was crazy for even thinking that and they were never in a serious relationship... (I guess just fooled around) It took me awhile to trust him because even though he didn't go and absolutely nothing happened I was still hurt. Like I said he told me two years after the fact but if he had told me at the time... who knows... Girls Suck!

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves



seriously! sigh..this isn't the 1st time it's happened either. where he used to work there were a couple girls chasing after him...

GET AWAY FROM MY MAN!! haha..if you girls knew me you'd laugh as well..i'm so not intimidating...i'm like a big pomeranian




Guess your FH is a stud huh lol...i know i see girls smiling at Fh when we go out, its like uhmmm im standing right next to him lol, i dont get it...When i was single if a guy had a gf that was off-limits thats it..If i saw a guy out with a girl i wouldn't look at him

jenlen Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!



LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name



OOOH...that's what happened...it's amazing how people have so much time on their hands to do crap like that.
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Autumn08

My FH had remained friends with a few of his x's. When I say X I mean serious relationships and casual dating. I didn't mind at al except for one girl we'll call her 'C'. Something about the way she acted towards him and the way he felt he still needed to make her happy just seemed weird to me. Then after one year of dating he calls me up and tells me 'C' was invited to two weddings and he will be going with her as her date! Needless to say I was not happy and had some words with him. He said that the weddings were friends of his. So where was his invitation? Then he said if he didn't go she'd have to bring her cousins boyfriend. Why should that be my problem? I knew exactly what was going on and two years later he admitted to me that she was trying to get back together with him. I was hurt because he told me that I was crazy for even thinking that and they were never in a serious relationship... (I guess just fooled around) It took me awhile to trust him because even though he didn't go and absolutely nothing happened I was still hurt. Like I said he told me two years after the fact but if he had told me at the time... who knows... Girls Suck!



UGH WHAT A C***...sorry you had to deal with that
KickinDandelions Posted:

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Posted by Autumn08

My FH had remained friends with a few of his x's. When I say X I mean serious relationships and casual dating. I didn't mind at al except for one girl we'll call her 'C'. Something about the way she acted towards him and the way he felt he still needed to make her happy just seemed weird to me. Then after one year of dating he calls me up and tells me 'C' was invited to two weddings and he will be going with her as her date! Needless to say I was not happy and had some words with him. He said that the weddings were friends of his. So where was his invitation? Then he said if he didn't go she'd have to bring her cousins boyfriend. Why should that be my problem? I knew exactly what was going on and two years later he admitted to me that she was trying to get back together with him. I was hurt because he told me that I was crazy for even thinking that and they were never in a serious relationship... (I guess just fooled around) It took me awhile to trust him because even though he didn't go and absolutely nothing happened I was still hurt. Like I said he told me two years after the fact but if he had told me at the time... who knows... Girls Suck!



that s*cks!!! at least nothing happened between the two of them and he didn't go... girls do s*ck sometimes
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by jenlen


Posted by Espo22


Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!



LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name



OOOH...that's what happened...it's amazing how people have so much time on their hands to do crap like that.



yeah plus it would've been easier to FM me personally, i didnt even see the original post bc it got deleted right away..i know bc a bunch of people starting FM'ing me to tell me but when i checked it was gone already...somebody copied it though and sent it to me so thats how i know what it said
graezie Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves



seriously! sigh..this isn't the 1st time it's happened either. where he used to work there were a couple girls chasing after him...

GET AWAY FROM MY MAN!! haha..if you girls knew me you'd laugh as well..i'm so not intimidating...i'm like a big pomeranian




this actually reminded me when we were both still in college. he's a wild frat boy so when we started dating, the girls gave me the meanest looks ever! some will flirt in-front of me-- but he's always protective so he'll pull me closer to him. but girls are mean- they don't care! so do what i do--- when this girl is around, be as sweet as can be. this will annoy the s&(! out of her!





KickinDandelions Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Guess your FH is a stud huh lol...i know i see girls smiling at Fh when we go out, its like uhmmm im standing right next to him lol, i dont get it...When i was single if a guy had a gf that was off-limits thats it..If i saw a guy out with a girl i wouldn't look at him



i think he is..but i didn't expect other people to think the same!! (hm..did that come out wrong? ) yea..some girls have no shame staring at guys that are with girls..but so far FH has been very good about always saying 'this is my fiancee, stephanie' right after they say hi ahhaha
Autumn08 Posted:

Re: NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)


Posted by graezie


Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves



seriously! sigh..this isn't the 1st time it's happened either. where he used to work there were a couple girls chasing after him...

GET AWAY FROM MY MAN!! haha..if you girls knew me you'd laugh as well..i'm so not intimidating...i'm like a big pomeranian




this actually reminded me when we were both still in college. he's a wild frat boy so when we started dating, the girls gave me the meanest looks ever! some will flirt in-front of me-- but he's always protective so he'll pull me closer to him. but girls are mean- they don't care! so do what i do--- when this girl is around, be as sweet as can be. this will annoy the s&(! out of her!








Kill 'em with kindness!
Espo22 Posted:

Re: NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)


Posted by graezie


Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves



seriously! sigh..this isn't the 1st time it's happened either. where he used to work there were a couple girls chasing after him...

GET AWAY FROM MY MAN!! haha..if you girls knew me you'd laugh as well..i'm so not intimidating...i'm like a big pomeranian




this actually reminded me when we were both still in college. he's a wild frat boy so when we started dating, the girls gave me the meanest looks ever! some will flirt in-front of me-- but he's always protective so he'll pull me closer to him. but girls are mean- they don't care! so do what i do--- when this girl is around, be as sweet as can be. this will annoy the s&(! out of her!








they dont care lol...when girls look at FH when were out he wont pay attention to them...One time we were out this girl was sitting across from us and i can see her trying to get his attention smiling at him and moving so he can see her, he didnt notice until i told him so he put his arm around me so she would get the point, maybe she was hoping we were just friends sitting together lol.
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by graezie


Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves



seriously! sigh..this isn't the 1st time it's happened either. where he used to work there were a couple girls chasing after him...

GET AWAY FROM MY MAN!! haha..if you girls knew me you'd laugh as well..i'm so not intimidating...i'm like a big pomeranian




this actually reminded me when we were both still in college. he's a wild frat boy so when we started dating, the girls gave me the meanest looks ever! some will flirt in-front of me-- but he's always protective so he'll pull me closer to him. but girls are mean- they don't care! so do what i do--- when this girl is around, be as sweet as can be. this will annoy the s&(! out of her!








And you should unnecessarily try to bring up things that you and FH are going to do later as a couple in front of her, like u should say stuff like 'baby, are you still coming over to my place after work?' or ' are we still on for dinner tonight?' Okay i'm taking this waaay too far, but it would be pretty funny..
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

Guess your FH is a stud huh lol...i know i see girls smiling at Fh when we go out, its like uhmmm im standing right next to him lol, i dont get it...When i was single if a guy had a gf that was off-limits thats it..If i saw a guy out with a girl i wouldn't look at him



i think he is..but i didn't expect other people to think the same!! (hm..did that come out wrong? ) yea..some girls have no shame staring at guys that are with girls..but so far FH has been very good about always saying 'this is my fiancee, stephanie' right after they say hi ahhaha



lol just dont tell him you said that hahaha.

Hmmm its funny bc i feel bad that Fh doesn't spend as much time with his friends anymore...Many of them are still single and go out to clubs/bars or wherever, and ill tell him why dont you go with them, he says no bc it can only bring trouble(alot of girls he used to date go to alot of the same clubs) hes not single anymore so doesnt care about going partying, plus hes done alot of partying and hes over it. But hmmm now i guess i should stop telling him to go lol, it can cause trouble lol...Whenever he has decided to go out for someones birthday or something he always tells me to go with him...He always says girls cause problems and i was always like OMG what can they do lol, but i guess hes right
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by graezie


Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

its just so ridiculous LOL, i mean she saw he is with someone, move on find another guy lol...That actually shows low self-esteem when someone goes after someone already in a relationship...Shows they dont mind being 2nd best and having someone all to themselves



seriously! sigh..this isn't the 1st time it's happened either. where he used to work there were a couple girls chasing after him...

GET AWAY FROM MY MAN!! haha..if you girls knew me you'd laugh as well..i'm so not intimidating...i'm like a big pomeranian




this actually reminded me when we were both still in college. he's a wild frat boy so when we started dating, the girls gave me the meanest looks ever! some will flirt in-front of me-- but he's always protective so he'll pull me closer to him. but girls are mean- they don't care! so do what i do--- when this girl is around, be as sweet as can be. this will annoy the s&(! out of her!








And you should unnecessarily try to bring up things that you and FH are going to do later as a couple in front of her, like u should say stuff like 'baby, are you still coming over to my place after work?' or ' are we still on for dinner tonight?' Okay i'm taking this waaay too far, but it would be pretty funny..



def should do that, hahaha rub it in her face

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