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NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)

Original post by KickinDandelions

So...maybe I'm just weird..but here goes a story I have to share with all of you..

FH and I work together in the same group but he started on the tech side and I started on the business side. Since then, he's joined the business side but still talks to his old techie co-workers. Now..maybe he doesn't realize it...but I know he's a natural flirt. I know I am too, but what kills me is that he refuses to admit it! So I've been telling him about this one girl we work with. She's seen the two of us together, and every time she passes by him, she smiles and giggles and says hi and and makes small talk. So I figure they're close and that I should be nice to her. I see her walking down the hallway, I say hi. When I see her about to come through the doorway, I ALWAYS hold the door and say hi. She never says a word to me. Doesn't even look at me. Sometimes, I swear she's giving me a dirty look!

So I tell FH all this and he tells me I'm crazy...that I'm too jealous and it's all in my head...

..until yesterday
FH and I are waiting for the elevator facing opposite directions and I see him look up, smile, and say hi..and I hear someone behind me say hi and ask how he is. So I turn around and smile and say hi...and realize it's this girl! As soon as I turned around, I saw her face change COMPLETELY. She scowled, closed her lips, and walked right by us. I turned to FH and he said..that was weird..I cannot believe she'd be so rude to you...WELL DUH!!! I WAS RIGHT!!!

Even now..he's still about how this girl could change her facial expression and mood like ...

SEE? I'M NOT CRAZY!! it's just that no one believes me
KickinDandelions Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



it'll be awesome if you catch the person...i'll keep my fingers crossed for you! i love it when people get their comeuppance
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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that's really scary to me...that people are so crazy that they would go through the trouble of cancelling another brides vendors and trying to sabotage someone else's relationship...what's the benefit? Some people are really off mentally..

Jesaroo2 Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



it'll be awesome if you catch the person...i'll keep my fingers crossed for you! i love it when people get their comeuppance




I know I want to know if its 08 girl! because I dont think any of us will talk to her anymore!!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by DnellD809





It was clear whoever this girl was...was out to just try and sabotage ur relationship. And VERY clear she didn't put much thought into ANY of it at all which makes her look like an even more STUPID biatch!!!
Anyway you would DEFINITELY notice any of that stuff especially seeing as how close you and ur FH are!
AHHHH that makes ME so mad that someone would do that...ESPECIALLY here...a place where we all go to help and lean on eachother!!!



yeah if i was gonna lie about something id make it more believable lol, a one night stand wouldve made it easier, yeah we spend most of our time together but we have been apart here and there lol oh well.

I do know for a fact though that it wasnt an ex, which is good, one of them is psycho so at least i know i dont have to deal with her. But also outside of LIW world lol, nothing is different or caused any drama with Fh, its not even effecting us. What can you do there are alot of crazy people out there, ive dealt with it before so many other people have, its sad but just gotta learn to look at it differently i guess
GinaBambina08 Posted:

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Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?




not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(



I agree, if it was an ex, at least you could say she's really hurt about her break-up with your FH, but a complete stranger?
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?




not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(



well dont know if you saw any of the threads, but there was also a post how I always brag about what im doing for my wedding, which i never bragged, i ll say what im doing the same way everyone does, like oh im getting this Bok, or im using this vendor ...so i dont know guess i rubbed someone the wrong way lol, cant win them all lol
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?




not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(



I agree, if it was an ex, at least you could say she's really hurt about her break-up with your FH, but a complete stranger?



well i know its def not 2 of his ex's, the ones he had more of a serious thing with, well 1 of them was more serious, the other was on and off and never really a serious relationship but they did have something...I know bc of the info i do have shows its def not them, but its quite possible it can still be another girl from his past.
Jesaroo2 Posted:

Re: NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?




not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(



well dont know if you saw any of the threads, but there was also a post how I always brag about what im doing for my wedding, which i never bragged, i ll say what im doing the same way everyone does, like oh im getting this Bok, or im using this vendor ...so i dont know guess i rubbed someone the wrong way lol, cant win them all lol



nope you cant win them all...but Im sure everyone has someone that 'rubs them the wrong way' on here, but I wouldnt make a fake name and try and ruin their relationships!!

some people are sick sick sick
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



it'll be awesome if you catch the person...i'll keep my fingers crossed for you! i love it when people get their comeuppance



hahaha and you got yours she obviously knew you were with him thats why she would never say anything to you or give you dirty looks...must've bothered her to see you two together HAHAHAHAHAHA
GinaBambina08 Posted:

Re: NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?




not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(



well dont know if you saw any of the threads, but there was also a post how I always brag about what im doing for my wedding, which i never bragged, i ll say what im doing the same way everyone does, like oh im getting this Bok, or im using this vendor ...so i dont know guess i rubbed someone the wrong way lol, cant win them all lol



What?? Isn't the point of this board to talk about the ideas you have for your wedding?? Why would that be bragging if everyone else on here is getting married? I'd understand if you were talking to single girls who wished they were getting married too but you're talking to other engaged girls...that's pretty odd..
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?




not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(



well dont know if you saw any of the threads, but there was also a post how I always brag about what im doing for my wedding, which i never bragged, i ll say what im doing the same way everyone does, like oh im getting this Bok, or im using this vendor ...so i dont know guess i rubbed someone the wrong way lol, cant win them all lol



nope you cant win them all...but Im sure everyone has someone that 'rubs them the wrong way' on here, but I wouldnt make a fake name and try and ruin their relationships!!

some people are sick sick sick



very true, i would just say something to the person not even like omg i dont like you lol but if their posts bother me i would let it be known
KickinDandelions Posted:

Re: NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)


Posted by Espo22

well dont know if you saw any of the threads, but there was also a post how I always brag about what im doing for my wedding, which i never bragged, i ll say what im doing the same way everyone does, like oh im getting this Bok, or im using this vendor ...so i dont know guess i rubbed someone the wrong way lol, cant win them all lol



i didn't see that post ! what a jerk! i think some girls on this board are really easily rubbed the wrong way..no matter how nicely you try to type something..sometimes they just misinterpret it...i guess some of us take things more personally than others and are very quick to get defensive..
Jesaroo2 Posted:

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eh whatever its over with...it just makes me

im just glad they r blocked!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by GinaBambina88


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2


Posted by Espo22


Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?




not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more



Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(



well dont know if you saw any of the threads, but there was also a post how I always brag about what im doing for my wedding, which i never bragged, i ll say what im doing the same way everyone does, like oh im getting this Bok, or im using this vendor ...so i dont know guess i rubbed someone the wrong way lol, cant win them all lol



What?? Isn't the point of this board to talk about the ideas you have for your wedding?? Why would that be bragging if everyone else on here is getting married? I'd understand if you were talking to single girls who wished they were getting married too but you're talking to other engaged girls...that's pretty odd..




I dont know lol thats what i say too but who knows why certain people do what they do
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

well dont know if you saw any of the threads, but there was also a post how I always brag about what im doing for my wedding, which i never bragged, i ll say what im doing the same way everyone does, like oh im getting this Bok, or im using this vendor ...so i dont know guess i rubbed someone the wrong way lol, cant win them all lol



i didn't see that post ! what a jerk! i think some girls on this board are really easily rubbed the wrong way..no matter how nicely you try to type something..sometimes they just misinterpret it...i guess some of us take things more personally than others and are very quick to get defensive..



yeah plus alot of people are just miserable with their own lives so i guess that has alot to do with it.
DnellD809 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by DnellD809





It was clear whoever this girl was...was out to just try and sabotage ur relationship. And VERY clear she didn't put much thought into ANY of it at all which makes her look like an even more STUPID biatch!!!
Anyway you would DEFINITELY notice any of that stuff especially seeing as how close you and ur FH are!
AHHHH that makes ME so mad that someone would do that...ESPECIALLY here...a place where we all go to help and lean on eachother!!!



yeah if i was gonna lie about something id make it more believable lol, a one night stand wouldve made it easier, yeah we spend most of our time together but we have been apart here and there lol oh well.

I do know for a fact though that it wasnt an ex, which is good, one of them is psycho so at least i know i dont have to deal with her. But also outside of LIW world lol, nothing is different or caused any drama with Fh, its not even effecting us. What can you do there are alot of crazy people out there, ive dealt with it before so many other people have, its sad but just gotta learn to look at it differently i guess


Well I'm glad you're not letting it effect your life. You really can't....there are just TOO many people in this world who try to bring people down and it's not fare to us!!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Jesaroo2

eh whatever its over with...it just makes me

im just glad they r blocked!



yeah it happened what can you do...Ive said before in another post, that this happened with Fh and me but it was the opposite, someone told fh's good friend some lies about and his friend told FH, well that caused a big problem but i did prove them wrong...Fh's friend just listened to whatever the other person said although its known that the person and i dont get along.
KickinDandelions Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

hahaha and you got yours she obviously knew you were with him thats why she would never say anything to you or give you dirty looks...must've bothered her to see you two together HAHAHAHAHAHA



i was giggling all last night every time it popped into my head.
Espo22 Posted:

Re: NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)


Posted by DnellD809


Posted by Espo22


Posted by DnellD809





It was clear whoever this girl was...was out to just try and sabotage ur relationship. And VERY clear she didn't put much thought into ANY of it at all which makes her look like an even more STUPID biatch!!!
Anyway you would DEFINITELY notice any of that stuff especially seeing as how close you and ur FH are!
AHHHH that makes ME so mad that someone would do that...ESPECIALLY here...a place where we all go to help and lean on eachother!!!



yeah if i was gonna lie about something id make it more believable lol, a one night stand wouldve made it easier, yeah we spend most of our time together but we have been apart here and there lol oh well.

I do know for a fact though that it wasnt an ex, which is good, one of them is psycho so at least i know i dont have to deal with her. But also outside of LIW world lol, nothing is different or caused any drama with Fh, its not even effecting us. What can you do there are alot of crazy people out there, ive dealt with it before so many other people have, its sad but just gotta learn to look at it differently i guess



Well I'm glad you're not letting it effect your life. You really can't....there are just TOO many people in this world who try to bring people down and it's not fare to us!!


yeah i really cant, i cant change my life by one post, and no evidence at all to back it up...When i asked the girl to back it up something simple, like what car does he drive, what cellphone does he have, or watch does he wear, they didnt know...She messaged me saying uhmmm whatever i dont know anything about your man ok, but they blocked themselves from getting messages
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by KickinDandelions


Posted by Espo22

hahaha and you got yours she obviously knew you were with him thats why she would never say anything to you or give you dirty looks...must've bothered her to see you two together HAHAHAHAHAHA



i was giggling all last night every time it popped into my head.



hahaha thats great, now when you see her you should still say hi but with a smirk on your face like HAHAHA B****

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