NWR: Vindication is sweet (sorry..long)

So...maybe I'm just weird..but here goes a story I have to share with all of you..

FH and I work together in the same group but he started on the tech side and I started on the business side. Since then, he's joined the business side but still talks to his old techie co-workers. Now..maybe he doesn't realize it...but I know he's a natural flirt. I know I am too, but what kills me is that he refuses to admit it! So I've been telling him about this one girl we work with. She's seen the two of us together, and every time she passes by him, she smiles and giggles and says hi and and makes small talk. So I figure they're close and that I should be nice to her. I see her walking down the hallway, I say hi. When I see her about to come through the doorway, I ALWAYS hold the door and say hi. She never says a word to me. Doesn't even look at me. Sometimes, I swear she's giving me a dirty look!

So I tell FH all this and he tells me I'm crazy...that I'm too jealous and it's all in my head...

..until yesterday
FH and I are waiting for the elevator facing opposite directions and I see him look up, smile, and say hi..and I hear someone behind me say hi and ask how he is. So I turn around and smile and say hi...and realize it's this girl! As soon as I turned around, I saw her face change COMPLETELY. She scowled, closed her lips, and walked right by us. I turned to FH and he said..that was weird..I cannot believe she'd be so rude to you...WELL DUH!!! I WAS RIGHT!!!

Even now..he's still about how this girl could change her facial expression and mood like ...

SEE? I'M NOT CRAZY!! it's just that no one believes me

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name

OMG that is great!!!

I swear its all guys .. they dont realize how woman can be and think that people are like them carefree. they dont get it when we notice things liek that and think it is in our heads.. im so glad your FH finally got a taste of it HAHA

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name

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Oh no! Really??? Hmmm I thought we were all supposed to be friends helping people out on this board!!!! Do you think you might know who it is?

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name

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Someone from this board?? What kind of psycho b**** would go through the trouble of doing that for someone they only know online? Do I hear LOSERRRRR

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Posted by GinaBambina88

Lol! I love it! I just can't wait til I have my vindication! I don't know what it is about men, my FH is the same way, he doesn't believe it when I tell him about catty girls..

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FH knows, thats why we stay away from certain places in case we bump into certain people lol, hes like girls are evil and manipulative and im not dealing with drama and getting you involved bc iknow something will happen lol.

Plus before we met he had a few female friends and i had no problem him still communicating with SOME of them lol, i felt bad at first bc i would see messages they would leave him about him never calling or picking up if they called and ignoring them...Fh said he doesnt think its right plus girls are catty. They just got the point after the first few months and stopped trying to contact him.

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Posted by DnellD809

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name

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Oh no! Really??? Hmmm I thought we were all supposed to be friends helping people out on this board!!!! Do you think you might know who it is?

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right now i dont know exactly, still working on it. But whoever it was should've paid more attention to what i write, i mean make up believable lies at least, like i said she could've said a one-night stand, booty call, hooking up a few times, but a one year affair ...Hmmm so i guess a girl is gonna be with a guy for one year and see him MAYBE once a week, and some weeks not see him at all...Never spend any holidays together, never call him, email or IM him, then when he goes away a couple times in the past year on vacation you never call again, and never think anything of it. We spend most of our time together, too much time sometimes lol, who would deal with that for a year. Plus a guy who cheats doesnt tell his gf to pick up his phone for him all the time, check his text messages and also at his house i only go under his name and he tells me to check his emails for him and give me the passwords to all of his things...I know cheating men and grew up with one my whole life so i know how it goes

Then what really was stupid is to say the girl was shocked to find out, hmmm it wouldve been more believable to say the girl knew and thats why she put up with all of that...Oh yeah then came back and said she spoke to her friend again and the girl said it wasnt going on anymore but just 30 mins before said when she spoke to her friend she was devastated

ahhh anyways lol, like i said they should've done a more believable lie...My friends call me an investigator, dont you think i would notice weird calls, emails,

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name

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that s*cks!! I can't believe someone on this board would do that!!!

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Posted by GinaBambina88

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name

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Someone from this board?? What kind of psycho b**** would go through the trouble of doing that for someone they only know online? Do I hear LOSERRRRR

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I dont know, but there are also girls who sit there and call other girls vendors to cancel their dates, i dont get it...this has happened to quite a few girls, who would take the time out to do all this lol

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Posted by Espo22

right now i dont know exactly, still working on it. But whoever it was should've paid more attention to what i write, i mean make up believable lies at least, like i said she could've said a one-night stand, booty call, hooking up a few times, but a one year affair ...Hmmm so i guess a girl is gonna be with a guy for one year and see him MAYBE once a week, and some weeks not see him at all...Never spend any holidays together, never call him, email or IM him, then when he goes away a couple times in the past year on vacation you never call again, and never think anything of it. We spend most of our time together, too much time sometimes lol, who would deal with that for a year. Plus a guy who cheats doesnt tell his gf to pick up his phone for him all the time, check his text messages and also at his house i only go under his name and he tells me to check his emails for him and give me the passwords to all of his things...I know cheating men and grew up with one my whole life so i know how it goes

Then what really was stupid is to say the girl was shocked to find out, hmmm it wouldve been more believable to say the girl knew and thats why she put up with all of that...Oh yeah then came back and said she spoke to her friend again and the girl said it wasnt going on anymore but just 30 mins before said when she spoke to her friend she was devastated

ahhh anyways lol, like i said they should've done a more believable lie...My friends call me an investigator, dont you think i would notice weird calls, emails,

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some people are so stupid...sigh

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Posted by GinaBambina88

Wow...seriously? That is sooo wierd...I guess I need to be more careful with my info from now on..

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yeah or talk to your vendors and say to confirm with you any changes...But youll notice alot of girls especially 07 girls dont put up this information. One girl said how luckily her hall called her to confirm this with her and thought it was weird that she would cancel her date. Its sad and scary at the same time...Imagine if a vendor doesnt check with you and books your date, i couldnt even imagine

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?

yea! i saw someone mention that it'd be a good idea to create a secret password with your vendors so that if you try to cancel they have to ask you for the password in order to confirm!!

can't believe it's come to that...

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

I BELIEVE YOU!!!
Girls are evil!!!!! They need to get away from out MEN!!!

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LOL you're telling me ...sad thing is that i thought it was an ex which would make sense, actually it looks like it was just someone from this board ...If someone has a problem with me they can come to me with it, not make up a profile, make up lies, and have to go under a different name

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Oh no! Really??? Hmmm I thought we were all supposed to be friends helping people out on this board!!!! Do you think you might know who it is?

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right now i dont know exactly, still working on it. But whoever it was should've paid more attention to what i write, i mean make up believable lies at least, like i said she could've said a one-night stand, booty call, hooking up a few times, but a one year affair ...Hmmm so i guess a girl is gonna be with a guy for one year and see him MAYBE once a week, and some weeks not see him at all...Never spend any holidays together, never call him, email or IM him, then when he goes away a couple times in the past year on vacation you never call again, and never think anything of it. We spend most of our time together, too much time sometimes lol, who would deal with that for a year. Plus a guy who cheats doesnt tell his gf to pick up his phone for him all the time, check his text messages and also at his house i only go under his name and he tells me to check his emails for him and give me the passwords to all of his things...I know cheating men and grew up with one my whole life so i know how it goes

Then what really was stupid is to say the girl was shocked to find out, hmmm it wouldve been more believable to say the girl knew and thats why she put up with all of that...Oh yeah then came back and said she spoke to her friend again and the girl said it wasnt going on anymore but just 30 mins before said when she spoke to her friend she was devastated

ahhh anyways lol, like i said they should've done a more believable lie...My friends call me an investigator, dont you think i would notice weird calls, emails,

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It was clear whoever this girl was...was out to just try and sabotage ur relationship. And VERY clear she didn't put much thought into ANY of it at all which makes her look like an even more STUPID biatch!!!
Anyway you would DEFINITELY notice any of that stuff especially seeing as how close you and ur FH are!
AHHHH that makes ME so mad that someone would do that...ESPECIALLY here...a place where we all go to help and lean on eachother!!!

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Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?

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not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Jesaroo2

omg denise u found out its someone from the board?

thats so horrible!...did ron track ip adresses?

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not 100% sure but looks like it...ron did track it and banned the person but bc of legal reasons i cant know who it is. I understand this and understand Ron's position

My friend is an IT guy so i asked him for help, i have some info but need a little more

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Wow I am in shock someone from this board would do this. Like I could see a jealous single EX ...but comeon we are all getting married all all are doing the same thing.

Why would someone want to try and ruin that for another bride :(