NWR-What would you do?? (SORRY LONG) but pls read...
I was at a bar last night with FH and 3 of his buddies... one left shortly before the following incident...
Fh was to my left his friend was across from me talking and his other friend Chris was to my right... anyway so FH and Chris and I are looking at the guy talking across from me... all of a sudden this guy walks behind me from my right puts his hands on my waste and starts rubbing my sides up and down from bust area to about hip bone... so he continues to maneuver to my left and leans over and looks right at my all sly/sexual/creepy as he is doing this... Fh and friend didn’t see cause they were all talking… so this guy he then continues to walk towards the Door like he owned the joint.. just in a kinda cocky manner... so as i watch him these 2 girls and him get all freaky in the entrance way.. and i thought to myself base on his domineer (and build) he worked there.. so i approached the first security guard i saw pointed to this guy and ask “that guy in the white shirt and kaki pants who is he”.. and he says he works here.. so i said i need to know who i can write a letter to because he just inappropriately touched me.. so the guy then walks around by me and this security guard and the security guard is points and says “him”.. i said yes him.. and he said i will take care of it.. so anyway, he said something to the guy as this was going on i then pointed this guy out to FH and his friends and then guy just continued to the back of the bar.. so i then approached another security guard and i said i need to know who i can write a letter to, this guy who works here in a white shirt and kaki pants inappropriately touched me he was like nooo really, i said he and showed him what he did.. and then pointed him out to me and i said yes HIM... he walked away then 4 security guards and this guy come up and he is in my face calling me names and a lier and that he never touched me.. another security guard is like's been in the VIP room i can vouch for that.. that is cr@p cause FH, his friends, me, and the security guard who spoke to him saw him around me right after it happened!!! anyway so the best is the guy is in my face and says.. i am head of security i know what to do and not to do.. umm well obviously you dont... so NOW i am pissed that their head of security sexually harassed me and they are doing nothing.. i have called them many times last night and today to get this guys name and the manager seems to be avoiding my calls (i spoke to him before i left last night) The bar lied to me and told me he left when i called last night and then i was told he was there till 4am last night! and when i have asked for his name last night they told me one name and today the woman i spoke to told me a different name (first only don’t know last).. i am getting pissed that his place of business is taking this to be a joke.. their employee touched me wrongly! never mind the fact that this sleaze is HEAD OF SECURITY!
So know with the way this bar is jerking me around i really feel like i should go down and file a report at the local precinct that this bars employee touched me inappropriatly to get this guys name that way if they are going to keep jerking me around!
FH was talking about calling a lawyer..
Can also take this guys name to his CO (military girls know what i mean)
File a police report on this guy???
I am just so mad this guy touched me in such a way and had the nerve to stare me down while doing it.. kinda like i am gonna touch you wether you like it or not attitude i feel...
TIA
Fh was to my left his friend was across from me talking and his other friend Chris was to my right... anyway so FH and Chris and I are looking at the guy talking across from me... all of a sudden this guy walks behind me from my right puts his hands on my waste and starts rubbing my sides up and down from bust area to about hip bone... so he continues to maneuver to my left and leans over and looks right at my all sly/sexual/creepy as he is doing this... Fh and friend didn’t see cause they were all talking… so this guy he then continues to walk towards the Door like he owned the joint.. just in a kinda cocky manner... so as i watch him these 2 girls and him get all freaky in the entrance way.. and i thought to myself base on his domineer (and build) he worked there.. so i approached the first security guard i saw pointed to this guy and ask “that guy in the white shirt and kaki pants who is he”.. and he says he works here.. so i said i need to know who i can write a letter to because he just inappropriately touched me.. so the guy then walks around by me and this security guard and the security guard is points and says “him”.. i said yes him.. and he said i will take care of it.. so anyway, he said something to the guy as this was going on i then pointed this guy out to FH and his friends and then guy just continued to the back of the bar.. so i then approached another security guard and i said i need to know who i can write a letter to, this guy who works here in a white shirt and kaki pants inappropriately touched me he was like nooo really, i said he and showed him what he did.. and then pointed him out to me and i said yes HIM... he walked away then 4 security guards and this guy come up and he is in my face calling me names and a lier and that he never touched me.. another security guard is like's been in the VIP room i can vouch for that.. that is cr@p cause FH, his friends, me, and the security guard who spoke to him saw him around me right after it happened!!! anyway so the best is the guy is in my face and says.. i am head of security i know what to do and not to do.. umm well obviously you dont... so NOW i am pissed that their head of security sexually harassed me and they are doing nothing.. i have called them many times last night and today to get this guys name and the manager seems to be avoiding my calls (i spoke to him before i left last night) The bar lied to me and told me he left when i called last night and then i was told he was there till 4am last night! and when i have asked for his name last night they told me one name and today the woman i spoke to told me a different name (first only don’t know last).. i am getting pissed that his place of business is taking this to be a joke.. their employee touched me wrongly! never mind the fact that this sleaze is HEAD OF SECURITY!
So know with the way this bar is jerking me around i really feel like i should go down and file a report at the local precinct that this bars employee touched me inappropriatly to get this guys name that way if they are going to keep jerking me around!
FH was talking about calling a lawyer..
Can also take this guys name to his CO (military girls know what i mean)
File a police report on this guy???
I am just so mad this guy touched me in such a way and had the nerve to stare me down while doing it.. kinda like i am gonna touch you wether you like it or not attitude i feel...
TIA
