NWR-- WHY ARE SOME MEN JERKS?

This morning my FI and I were talking and he started telling me about this recuiter at his job who recently got married in September. Anyway, the recruiter tells my FI that he loves his wife and loves being married, but he would like to have sex with other women!!! WHAT?! Then my FI tells me an incident where this recruiter went on a trip and was hitting on the women there....plus to make matter worse he was bad talking his wife to the girls that he was hitting on...WHAT A JERK!!!

I HAD TO GET THAT OUT..IT REALLY UPSET ME...why get married....

On top of being unfairthful.... he likes bragging about it!!! I don't know which one is worst.

Very smart individual. I am sorry for his wife. Then for him when she finds out. Everybody finds out one way or another.

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Posted by sr081906

On top of being unfairthful.... he likes bragging about it!!! I don't know which one is worst.

Very smart individual. I am sorry for his wife. Then for him when she finds out. Everybody finds out one way or another.

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THAT'S TRUE....HOPEFULLY SOONER THAN LATER!

Ugh, what a LOOSER!!! Why get married is right!!!!

The bottom line is the truth will eventually come out because it always does and when it does his wife will be the last one laughing!!!

I guess he does not care about his career either. Not a good move to talk openly about his 'side adventures'.

Who is going to respect such a guy in the office?

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Posted by JandJ1224

What makes me sad, is do they have kids, are they planning on having kids. What about them and how this will effect their lives. This guys actions could be effecting a lot of peoples lives, its so sad!!!

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Well i don't think that they have kids, but they could be planning to..you never know....BUT they have been married for 8 months....

jerks is RIGHT! i have a SUPER DUPER jerk story:

a friend of the family, was on vacation when he proposed. they were there with her family, and he did the proposal in front of them and it was so sweet and romantic and blah blah blah. well she retired to her room early that night (they were staying in separate rooms). well he was a little PO'd about that, so he went to the bar to chill. he meet some freaking 18 year old (he was 25 at the time) and HOOKS UP WITH HER!!! the night he proposed to her DW--he got some action from another woman.

he's kind of grimey. little does his DW know that the ring that sits on her finger--is the exact ring that he bought his ex-fiance before they met. he didn't want to lose any $$ and figured 'what's the big deal if it's a recycled ring?' i don't know her that well--so i can't say anything. but i feel like ONE DAY someone will slip--cause sooooo many people know about it!

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Posted by qdavis

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Posted by JandJ1224

What makes me sad, is do they have kids, are they planning on having kids. What about them and how this will effect their lives. This guys actions could be effecting a lot of peoples lives, its so sad!!!

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Well i don't think that they have kids, but they could be planning to..you never know....BUT they have been married for 8 months....

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not to mention STDs...no, not the cute little things you sent out 4 months ago. lets say he contracts it [AIDS], gets hurt or ill and is in the hospital...the hospital cannot tell his wife he has AIDS, it's illegal. so she would go about her life not necessarily knowing she could have AIDS. the only way she'd know is if she looked at his chart and even then that's almost illegal as it's not 'her' chart. [that law irritates me...you should be able to tell a blindly faithful spouse that they have a cheater]

Obviously wasn't ready to settle down.

IMO there's nothing worse than a cheater. I truly hope she finds out before they have children! My father was unfaithful to my mom when my brother and I were in elementary school and I can't even begin to explain the trust issues we both have when it comes to relationships! Thankfully that all changed for me when I met FI but believe me, it really does affect the children in a profound way. Some men are just so selfish, it kills me! Why even bother getting married??

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Posted by MJDoc12

jerks is RIGHT! i have a SUPER DUPER jerk story:

a friend of the family, was on vacation when he proposed. they were there with her family, and he did the proposal in front of them and it was so sweet and romantic and blah blah blah. well she retired to her room early that night (they were staying in separate rooms). well he was a little PO'd about that, so he went to the bar to chill. he meet some freaking 18 year old (he was 25 at the time) and HOOKS UP WITH HER!!! the night he proposed to her DW--he got some action from another woman.

he's kind of grimey. little does his DW know that the ring that sits on her finger--is the exact ring that he bought his ex-fiance before they met. he didn't want to lose any $$ and figured 'what's the big deal if it's a recycled ring?' i don't know her that well--so i can't say anything. but i feel like ONE DAY someone will slip--cause sooooo many people know about it!

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OMG that has to be the worst story I've ever heard! What an @ss!

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Posted by MJDoc12

jerks is RIGHT! i have a SUPER DUPER jerk story:

a friend of the family, was on vacation when he proposed. they were there with her family, and he did the proposal in front of them and it was so sweet and romantic and blah blah blah. well she retired to her room early that night (they were staying in separate rooms). well he was a little PO'd about that, so he went to the bar to chill. he meet some freaking 18 year old (he was 25 at the time) and HOOKS UP WITH HER!!! the night he proposed to her DW--he got some action from another woman.

he's kind of grimey. little does his DW know that the ring that sits on her finger--is the exact ring that he bought his ex-fiance before they met. he didn't want to lose any $$ and figured 'what's the big deal if it's a recycled ring?' i don't know her that well--so i can't say anything. but i feel like ONE DAY someone will slip--cause sooooo many people know about it!

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OMG!!! aint that something....what an A-hole!!!!! I don't understand why so many men get married knowing that they aren't ready...what is the point?