Ok some people here know my situation. Anyhow, Lucas my 8 year old son, is having a hard time in 3rd grade. I don't get support from his father, cause he's a deadbeat living with some internet whore in Ohio, and tries to switch his Social security #, so I don't get support. But...this is my deal. I asked him 2 weeks ago to pay for swimming, and he said fine. I called him tonight, and he says and I quote'Why should I pay for swimming when he's a failure in school'? So now i wanna drive to butt FU*k Ohio and B!tch slap him something fierce. Sorry for the havoc, but I am at my witts end. The ordasity. And on top of that, he tries to say....your being taped, so be prepared in court. Uhhhh Emmmmmmm, but excuse me, you mine as well dig you own F'in grave. Fuc* with the bull, you get the horns. So thats what I'm about now! Thanks for listening. And if you were in my sitch what would you do?
werock0709
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Some guys just dont get it. Has he ever thought that maybe he is rebelling? When kids arent happy about something they tend to act out. Maybe that's why he's not doing good in school; he misses his dad. Maybe he feels like his dad will come back and fix it. You never know. You need to take him to court, you have his number so you can get his address. Get a summons sent to him and he'll have to go if not he'll be locked up.
I wish you and your son the best of luck
I have court tomm for supervised visitation, and on the 31st, I have a violation of a support order. All of which is in my favor. I HATE going back and forth to court, but until I'm happy with him being behind bars for being a deadbeat dad, I will go back and forth to family court until I'm happy with the outcome. So as far as court, I'm on it. It's just stressful. Thank you all for your input. I'm very content, and Lucas knows who his REAL father is, and he also knows who supports him. It's sad but he calls his father a buddy sometimes. Daren and I are his stability and guidance, and thats what he needs more than anything.
PegaLega
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I would be on my way to kick his @ss!! That I can tell you now! The nerve of him to say that! Hes a failure as a father obviously and the least he can do is pay for his child to have activities other then sitting around doing nothing!!! I would **** him up!
lilqtpie2181
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I give u credit for dealing with him at all. Im the kind of person that would jus completly cut him off and not include him in my sons life until he started showing some interest. Reason being cuz I would get VERY angry, as im sure you are, about the little things that he is not around for and probably get locked up for tyring to run him over with my car. Im sorry ur going throughthis hun.. u have enough on ur plate as is!!
kewlpuff
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being the resident law student, i'd say you may have a claim and get your child support (but then again i dunno the details of ur situation....) i won't worry about the 'you're being taped' part unless you call him very very often.... in dealing with people like this though, i would just stay away from them. if he's left his own son and a great gal, then i wouldn't bother giving him another chance to try and even help - it might just turn out better that way hang in there and u'll be in my prayers
