Odd Question

Michi9506 Posted: Jul 04, 2007 07:34 AM

Odd Question

Do people who rsvp no usually send gifts???

ksl268 Posted: Jul 04, 2007 07:37 AM

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I guess it would be polite to send something but not necessary.

erdbeere Posted: Jul 04, 2007 07:41 AM

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sometimes

AllJoy Posted: Jul 04, 2007 07:45 AM

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I've heard sometimes, but I'm not counting on it. To be honest, I've only done it w/people that I was close with whose weddings I couldn't attend

Sept07Bride Posted: Jul 04, 2007 08:39 AM

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Sometimes. I always make sure I send something if we have to RSVP no. I now know how much people put into planning events like this, so I appreciate being invited to spend the day with them.

Summer07Bride Posted: Jul 04, 2007 08:44 AM

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I heard that they do, but I got no gifts with my no RSVPs.

diva7531 Posted: Jul 04, 2007 08:45 AM

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Sometimes, they will send a check, it depends on the person. I didn't know you should/could until last year!

joan_db Posted: Jul 04, 2007 09:40 AM

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Posted by ksl268

I guess it would be polite to send something but not necessary.

Ditto

bettybcafe Posted: Jul 04, 2007 10:51 AM

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Posted by ksl268

I guess it would be polite to send something but not necessary.

Exactly. Ive had a few 'No''s who sent their RSVP back with a check...but Ive also had some 'no's' without any checks...so it depends..but its not mandatory

Tiggeruth Posted: Jul 04, 2007 10:56 AM

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some did. some didn't

donegal419 Posted: Jul 04, 2007 11:21 AM

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it depends.... i have to say most people that said NO for our wedding still sent gifts. some of the NO people were aunts and uncles who live abroad and the gifts were substantial...even better than some of the gifts we got from people from the wedding. i think it really depends on your relationship with the person that cannot attend.