I just got home from the hospital a few minutes ago... I came home to pick up some clothes for tomorrow, change into PJs and get a blanket. I waited until Vinny received his last dose of morphine and meds for tonight and fell asleep... I hate leaving him alone. I was DEVASTATED to hear from Nicole (Shorty) on the phone today that someone wrote what they wrote about Sarah... to think someone was that cruel and disgusting as to say those negative things about Sarah on here is just unbelievable. So I made sure to remember to come on for just a few minutes and post some support for Sarah... I made sure to remember to go out of my way for her like she goes out of her way for not only me but SO many other people.
Honestly, what is this world coming to? I want to know that-- in a world where someone runs another human being off the road-- sending him into a tree, where he was unconcious for almost 7 minutes-- only to be woken up by the police poking him to see if he is alive-- and you have it in you to LEAVE the scene? How do you do that? How do you go home to your house (family, kids, wife, husband, whatever) and look them in the face when you just did that to someone... how do you sleep at night? Do you wonder what happened to that person-- if they are alive or dead? And furthermore, how does no one stop? No one decides to pull over and see if my fiance is still alive? No one thinks that MAYBE they should stop and give a statement to try and help since the person responsible LEFT?? HALF of his car was GONE and no one stops??? All of this and what happened today with Sarah is what makes me so sad-- why do we treat each other like this? What makes us all so cruel and cold??
When someone comes on here and acts like such a coward-- b/c you won't even show WHO you are-- and you do that, you hide behind your computer screen and say nasty things about a good person like Sarah-- a decent person who bent over backwards to be there for me when everything went down with Vinny-- and how horrible I felt having to miss her Bachelorette Party... I just don't get it. I think you are lucky that you did this anonymously b/c honestly, after all I have been through and the fact that I'm starting to see how FEW good and decent people there are left in this world-- it just makes me so angry that if I were to ever see the person who did this face to face-- well, I don't think I would be able to control myself and the anger that would come out.
To sit there all weekend and watch the person you love more than anything else not be able to move-- he can't even sit up in bed and can barely get up to go to the bathroom-- he is in tears, a grown man, in tears trying to get out of bed-- I can't even explain it in words the pain I felt for him and the uncontrollable sadness that has consumed me. And I can't explain the disappointment I felt hearing from Nicole about Sarah today-- just b/c she was so supportive when I was in need...
Well, I need to get back to him but I just had to come on and post something about Sarah and what a wonderful person she is.... and I had to let out all of my frustration with the world we live in today-- and how we all, as people, act and treat one another.
It's hard to find someone like her these days- she is honest, decent and down to earth and I'm so glad that I have her as a friend. She is selfless and goes out of her way to help anyone and everyone. It's just not right-- what happened with Vinny isn't right and what happened to Sarah isn't right and I think the lesson to be learned in all of this is to just make sure that we all try and treat each other the right way-- if everyone would just go out of their way A LITTLE BIT for another person each day-- think about the difference you could make. And the next time you see someone who needs help-- go the extra mile to do it b/c one day you might need someone's help (or a person you love).... and the next time you feel jealous or like you have to knock someone else to make yourself feel better-- go to a therapist and figure out WHY it gives you a sense of happiness to attack another person.
God bless all of the good ones that are still out there... hope you are having fun Sarah and thanks for posting this Nic!!
To everyone else: I can't thank you enough for the support... I really can't, it brings tears to my eyes. I will def answer all the voicemails, FMs and posts when Vinny is doing better and finally when he is back home, where he belongs, for good.
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