Oh My God...

Original post by OhMyGod

Aug 01, 2002 10:11 AM

Hi. I am a regular user but could not use my regular screen name for this post. I am getting married SOON and I just found out I am pregnant. I am happy but scared to death to tell my family. Do you think I should wait to tell them until AFTER the wedding? It's in a few weeks. HELP! Thanks.

jennbaby Posted: Aug 01, 2002 08:44 PM

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I am dying to know who you really are

Jen2704 Posted: Aug 02, 2002 01:33 AM

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Congrats!!! What a nice secret to share w/just your FH and yourself...I think its cute!! I hope everything goes well and get some rest and take care of yourself!!

Jen

jenny11.9 Posted: Aug 02, 2002 02:12 AM

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oh how wonderful 'oh my god'! Listen - this is why we're in the 'wedding business' anyway isn't it? You just hold your head high (and your belly strong) and walk down that aisle knowing that your lives are beginning in more ways than one.

What I find amazing is that you were able to even CONSIDER having SEX during the planning months!!! That's super incredible! Must be a lot of love there....and tons of passion. God bless - and whatever you decide will be the right decision. After all...mothers are always right!

OhMyGod Posted: Aug 02, 2002 08:09 AM

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I promise I will let you all know who I am AFTER I get back from my honeymoon!

Thanks again everyone....you are all super supportive! I told FH last night when he got home....boy was he psyched! It made me so happy to see his reaction!!!!!!!!! I am going to call the doctor today, and have been taking my vitamins religiously (somehow I had a feeling I was pg).

I think I should be the spokesperson for the quote 'It only takes once!' LOL.

aug9bride Posted: Aug 02, 2002 08:24 AM

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applesfla Posted: Aug 02, 2002 09:38 AM

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Congrats!! How exciting for you and your FH! I don't know if I would be able to keep a secret like that from my mother (we are really close) but I think the rest of the girls are right, keep it as something for you and your FH to share together on your special day.
And I agree with one of the other girls...don't forget the sparkling cider. No one will ever know

I wish you all the best with your wedding and your pregnancy.

JennK Posted: Aug 02, 2002 10:32 AM

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all the best to you!! If you tell close family (parents, siblings) I think that would be ok, but otherwise everyone is going to take the focus off your wedding day and you have put too much time and energy into it to let that happen. Enjoy your day and then deal with telling people when you get back.

Becky Posted: Aug 02, 2002 10:37 AM

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Congrats to Oh My God and all the other prego brides! My mom had seven kids and she and my dad didn't tell ANYONE until three months into all of the pregnancies. They thought it was bad luck to tell anyone before they were into the second trimester. I don't know if it there is any luck involved, but incase you missed it, they had seven kids