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OH MY GOD! HELP!

violetfairy Posted:

OH MY GOD! HELP!

This is one of the creepiest things that has ever happened to me. I get an email from Lavalife.com saying 'thanks for signing up.' I think it's just spam and delete it, then I realize that it said my username was JENWRITES. I'm a writer, and Jen is my name, so I realize, wait, how would they know that? So I sign in to my 'account' and find out I HAVE A PROFILE... READ THIS!:

'Engaged But Looking For Fun!'

In My Own Words


Okay, here's the deal: I'm engaged to the love of my life, and we're in the final stages of setting a wedding date(June or July, we haven't decided). But before I settle down for life, I'm looking to have some intimate, last-minute fun! Don't get me wrong: I love my baby like there's no tomorrow, and once I'm married, my wedding ring is my world...but I NEED to get some last minute groove on, to get it out of my system! Any takers?


A little to get us started...

What really turns me on: a foot/back massage, a shower/bath for two, being tickled
Encounters I am open to one-night stand, oral sex, spanking
What I am looking for in a partner: discretion/secrecy, always practices safe sex, a sense of humor

Personal Details

Gender: Female
Age: 30
Height: 5'0'
Body Type: average
Ethnic Background: caucasian (white)
Smoking Habits: do not smoke
Drinking Habits: socially
Religion: catholic
Status: I'm attached looking for a discreet encounter
Sexual Interests: conventional sex
Location: ISLIP, New York
Last Changed: Apr 18, 2003.
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I AM SO CREEPED OUT!!!!!!!

I DIDN'T WRITE ANY OF THAT!!!!!!

WHO THE HELL could have done this?? They know my town, my name, my (private) e-mail address, my thoughts on wedding dates, etc. And WHY WOULD SOMEONE DO THIS?? I'm so freaked out!

violetfairy Posted:

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WAIT-- it gets worse!!!!! THEY PUT MY PICTURES UP, TOO!!!!!!!!! I feel like I'm going to throw up...

NYCMeghan Posted:

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contact the administrator at lava life

they can track who did this through their IP address
LisaT Posted:

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any friends who like to play practical jokes?

Stacey1403 Posted:

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I would be freaking out!
swags1016 Posted:

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I would contact the board administrator too and see if they can find out who actually signed you up.

violetfairy Posted:

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No friends who like to play practical jokes. They would never do this to me. Also, some of the details are wrong (I'm not 30, I do smoke, I don't drink, etc.), so it doesn't look like it's someone who knows me well... BUT! They do know my e-mail address, where I live, etc. GOD! I'm just so sick to my stomach. I didn't know I had any enemies in this world. I'm contacting Lavalife now. My fiance isn't even home right now so he can't cool me down... ACKKKKK!

jennbaby Posted:

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I get messed up emails all the time, ask anyone on here!

MayDay16 Posted:

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That is so messed up. Please make sure you have an updated firewall up and report the incident immediately. Just stay calm.

p&a91203 Posted:

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That's Crazy ! Is there anyone you can think of that would do such a thing to you? How weird...
OctBride03 Posted:

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WHAT?! OH MY GOD!!! There has to be someone you can contact!! I'm sorry this happened to you!

for you!
nycchic_24 Posted:

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i looked there and didnt see anyone with that nic..you can be a guest on the site so i went to check it out...i didnt see your nicname..maybe it was an accident?

violetfairy Posted:

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NYCchick: look up JENSMILES. It looks like they changed my username.

nycchic_24 Posted:

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YEAH ITS UNDER THAT NICE BUT NO PICTURE THIS TIME

violetfairy Posted:

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There are 3 pictures, but they're all 'under review.' (Have to be approved by the people at Lavalife before they get posted.) But *I* can see them when I sign on! I'm going to take a shower and then call the police.

Kathy116 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear that, that would make me puke! Please let us know what happens!

nycchic_24 Posted:

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i cant believe this...thats insane..but why can only you see them? I dont get that.

LisaT Posted:

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before pics can get posted to the public site, lavalife has to 'approve' them. So the person who's profile it is can see them, but they're not actually up yet. Means this was set up really recently, like today.

(my sister has used lavalife, thats why I know these things)
violetfairy Posted:

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nyc: because there are 3 pictures that are loaded on there, but it says they're 'under review' and have to be approved by Lavalife before they get posted publicly.

nycchic_24 Posted:

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but i dont understand...how do they know its her profile? Thats what i dont understand.

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