Since Bourne Mansion is in Suffolk Cty. you can get all of your deposit back (except I think $100) as long as you cancel prior to 6months before the wedding date.
Sorry you are thinking about looking for another RH. Bourne Mansion is beautiful, but if it's not for you, than maybe you are better off finding something else. In the end you will be happier.
hwolf812
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honestly if you love the place why does it matter what they think...i mean who are they to say the type of location you SHOULD have, its your wedding not theirs
i totally agree!
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Thanks ladies....youre all amazing. i was so bummed but i think im in a better place to talk to my FH about it just remain positive.
and i COMPLETELy didnt realize we might be able to get our deposit back! I will totally have to look into that - thanks!
SFBride2Be
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UPDATE:
so my FH and I spoke about everything last night and we are 100% going to keep the RH at the Bourne. I really love it and he thinks that we can make the whole event really unique there and just totally go all out! So i'm excited about that. I think we are going to a bit more research on hotels/churches/RD places but I'm a still definitely going to be a Bourne bride - im thrilled!!!!!! i really am so excited
phewwwwwwww so relieved -------------------------------------------------------------
So - my FH and the family went to visit the RH (Bourne) this past weekend and I think we may end up having to find a new place!!!!
while they loved it - they think that we have no connection to it and that we should find someplace on the beach or on water somewhere in upstate NY or NJ.
We have already put the site deposit down - which i guess in the end we can deal with - but im just nervous that we wont find a place...
anyone have any suggestions?
menc
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I don't know the backround to this, but I think if you love the place you should have it there. Don't let people tell you what and where you should do things, it is your wedding day and you should do what makes YOU happy.
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yay im so glad it worked out in the end!
Cheryl28
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Posted by SFBride2Be
UPDATE:
so my FH and I spoke about everything last night and we are 100% going to keep the RH at the Bourne. I really love it and he thinks that we can make the whole event really unique there and just totally go all out! So i'm excited about that. I think we are going to a bit more research on hotels/churches/RD places but I'm a still definitely going to be a Bourne bride - im thrilled!!!!!! i really am so excited
phewwwwwwww so relieved -------------------------------------------------------------
So - my FH and the family went to visit the RH (Bourne) this past weekend and I think we may end up having to find a new place!!!!
while they loved it - they think that we have no connection to it and that we should find someplace on the beach or on water somewhere in upstate NY or NJ.
We have already put the site deposit down - which i guess in the end we can deal with - but im just nervous that we wont find a place...
anyone have any suggestions?
I am so happy you are keeping it. I am getting married there and it is beautiful and different. It is so different from the rest of everyone that I know and we are makin unique to us. So happy for you. Thr Bourne Rocks...oh and the food is amazing...
nmeandwjh
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Hey, I'm getting married at the Bourne! And I'm so happy you decided to keep it! I can help you with picking hotels/church/RD places.. FM me if you have any questions at all.. I'd be happy to help! Nicole
