Oh No......(with Pic)

FullersBride Posted: May 13, 2007 05:31 PM

Oh No......(with Pic)

SO FH got a job back in October in CT, he has been living iwth my parents ever since and we see each other once a week or so.

Well, We decided that we wanted to move to CT after the wedding so we started house hunting a few weeks ago just to get an idea of what is out there.

I told FH that I DID NOT WANT TO BUY A HOUSE BEFORE THE WEDDING!!!!

WEllllll................. WE found our dream home yesterday

I'm totally freaking out because I'm getting married in 68 days and now we have to call banks tomorrow, put an offer on the house get an inspection and we are now probably buying our first hoem before the wedding!!! I'm totally panicking and terrified right now. WE are just so miserable living away from each other and this is our DREAM HOME!!!

What do you guys think??? Am I totally crazy for trying to buy a house now; or should I give this one up and try to find one after the wedding?

HELP

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HeatherRose Posted: May 13, 2007 05:44 PM

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def go for this house, if its meant to be, it will all work out fine. don't worry it will all be fine, I know its stressful, but its worth it in the end!

BklynBride22 Posted: May 13, 2007 05:58 PM

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We are doing the same. its scary but u should definately go for it

toniscott Posted: May 13, 2007 06:04 PM

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Us to, if you love the house dont let it get away..Also, the house prices next year will defentlity be higher than now. :) Good Luck, I close in 2 weeks...

JazzyT Posted: May 13, 2007 06:06 PM

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Go for the house i think the best thing we did was buy a house 1 yr before the wedding at least this way by the time the weddign rolls around you are already used to paying the morgage and new bills you and FH will have a system in place and trust when I say its not bad.

Do not give up your dream home its beautiful and sometimes we just have to accept that things are not always handed to us in the order that we like it but somehow we must deal with it.

cookiemonster Posted: May 13, 2007 06:39 PM

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Holy cow, that is a beautiful house!! I say go for it - it's a great investment and something to look forward to a long, happy time in! It will be tight for awhile, but you're already budgeting your $$ so you can just keep at it, cut things back where possible, and make it work. The great thing is that you'll get a big tax refund back next year, which will help a lot. Good luck!

faithandkevin Posted: May 13, 2007 06:43 PM

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Date twin- buy it!! It will be stressful, trust me, but it is sooooo worth it. You will regret it if you don't!
We just closed on our home last month, and it was so crazy stressful. But it's so worth it- we love it!

diva7531 Posted: May 13, 2007 07:12 PM

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It is gorgeous!!! I would go for it!!!

Krisjc2178 Posted: May 13, 2007 07:13 PM

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Def. go for it!!! You dont want to regret not getting it - everything will fall into place just fine!

rachel212 Posted: May 13, 2007 07:14 PM

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Definitely buy it! It's GORGEOUS. It's definitely stressful, but you will be kicking yourself if you let your dream house slip away.

luvabul Posted: May 13, 2007 07:41 PM

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very nice

rfilipofornow Posted: May 13, 2007 07:49 PM

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the house is GORGEOUS! if it's your dream house, definitely go for it!! good luck!!!

ejm1219 Posted: May 13, 2007 08:29 PM

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We bought our house last month and we are getting married in July! Totally do it! If you find something you

kat74 Posted: May 13, 2007 08:31 PM

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I know it's a stressful time-- but if this is your dream home-- GO FOR IT!!! you may regret it later and kick yourself forever-- jsut do it (if you can!)
ENJOY every moment -- this is such an exciting time!

poogie Posted: May 13, 2007 08:38 PM

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ITS BEAUTIFUL....GO FOR IT....JUST THINK BY THE WEDDING HE CAN CARRY YOU INTO YOUR NEW HOUSE...GOOD LUCK

PegaLega Posted: May 13, 2007 08:38 PM

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I say go for iy! The house is gorgeous and no matter what you will make it work!! Good Luck

Pencils Posted: May 13, 2007 08:43 PM

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That's a gorgeous house. If you really love it, do it now. OTOH, I keep hearing how the housing market is going down, which is great for us, as we're going to start house hunting for serious after the wedding. So...you might get a much better deal if you wait until the summer or fall. It's a hard decision. But if it's really your dream house, you should go with it.