oh you've got to be kidding me...

jlt2010 Posted: Nov 11, 2009 11:13 PM

oh you've got to be kidding me...

sending out these save the dates have caused me so much headache. don't people know how to be polite? a friend I'm not that close with left me a message on facebook asking for a std. then she messages me with 'where is my invite!!' i was trying to figure out the right way to say it to her that she's not invited. and not even 10 mins later, one of my BMs message me that this friend is calling me a b*tch and complaining to her that I'm ignoring her messages. (god forbid that i was away from my computer).

i was gonna just s*ck it up and invite her when i got her fb message, but now i'm not so sure. i don't think this warrants enough reason to call me a b*tch. i don't know what to do...

CappyGirl Posted: Nov 11, 2009 11:14 PM

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If you didn't intend to invite her - don't invite her!! Esp. if she is going to call you a bish!! It's your day - I dont think you need her there!!

TessMike621 Posted: Nov 11, 2009 11:15 PM

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tell her that you would love to have her at your wedding but you are having a smaller wedding and only inviting relatives and very close friends maybe?

GinaMike24 Posted: Nov 11, 2009 11:15 PM

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I would just explain that you would LOVE to have her but sorry can't add people to the guest list. Sorry for being a biotch!

people

pipermaru Posted: Nov 11, 2009 11:20 PM

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wow i hate when people invite themselves! i would never invite her, especially after she called you a b!

JessNicole7EM Posted: Nov 12, 2009 12:08 AM

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wow that's bullshitt.

I wouldn't invite her, especially if you didn't intend to invite her to begin with..

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Nov 12, 2009 12:34 AM

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I was going to say invite her but after finding out she called you a b*tch, now i would say don't even waste your STD on her lol. Send it to someone who you would really want to be there.

Nina1010 Posted: Nov 12, 2009 01:11 AM

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Posted by pipermaru

wow i hate when people invite themselves! i would never invite her, especially after she called you a b!

ITA...she's cut from the list if it was me.

SummerBride10 Posted: Nov 12, 2009 06:28 AM

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Its ridiciulous when people outright ask if they're invited.

Tell her straight up she's not invited, get over. especially if she's gonna be a btch about it.

This is the time you find out who is your true friends.

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Nov 12, 2009 07:50 AM

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Posted by SummerBride10

Its ridiciulous when people outright ask if they're invited.

Tell her straight up she's not invited, get over. especially if she's gonna be a btch about it.

This is the time you find out who is your true friends.

ITA. I wouldn't even sugarcoat it with the explanation of (even if it's a lie) having a smaller wedding with only family and the closest of friends.

GR2010 Posted: Nov 12, 2009 08:03 AM

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If you didn't originally want her there then don't invite her. Especially know since you know she has been bad mouthing you behind your back. Eff her.

marinai7 Posted: Nov 12, 2009 08:05 AM

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If you didn't want to invite her in the first place, I wouldn't invite her now, especially since she's calling you names.

Jna2010 Posted: Nov 12, 2009 08:31 AM

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Posted by CappyGirl

If you didn't intend to invite her - don't invite her!! Esp. if she is going to call you a bish!! It's your day - I dont think you need her there!!

ita!!!!!!!!! like seriously who acts so childish and demands invitations?!

elisa112101 Posted: Nov 12, 2009 10:53 AM

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stay strong... if she is that quick to call you out then she really isnt that good a friend!! i wouldnt invite her!!JMO

AngnShaun Posted: Nov 12, 2009 10:54 AM

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Posted by CappyGirl

If you didn't intend to invite her - don't invite her!! Esp. if she is going to call you a bish!! It's your day - I dont think you need her there!!

ITA

grkbarbie Posted: Nov 12, 2009 10:54 AM

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stay strong. i have some1 constantly byching about not being a bridesmaid. im like dude ENOUGH!!!!! ppl seriously have no shame

Jtruran Posted: Nov 12, 2009 10:58 AM

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Sooo many ppl have done this to me (besides the name calling) it's annoying and rude to invite yourself to anyones wedding. I ignore them or I lie and tell them I will send one and hopefully they will forget...err