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oh you've got to be kidding me...

Original post by jlt2010

sending out these save the dates have caused me so much headache. don't people know how to be polite? a friend I'm not that close with left me a message on facebook asking for a std. then she messages me with 'where is my invite!!' i was trying to figure out the right way to say it to her that she's not invited. and not even 10 mins later, one of my BMs message me that this friend is calling me a b*tch and complaining to her that I'm ignoring her messages. (god forbid that i was away from my computer).

i was gonna just s*ck it up and invite her when i got her fb message, but now i'm not so sure. i don't think this warrants enough reason to call me a b*tch. i don't know what to do...
Future Mrs P Posted:

Re: oh you've got to be kidding me...

I would Z list her!!! Who the heck does she think she is. Last time I checked you don't invite yourself to other people affairs!!!!
jlt2010 Posted:

Re: oh you've got to be kidding me...

thanks girls. i really needed to hear that! I love that you girls know exactly how I feel.

cleokizzy Posted:

Re: oh you've got to be kidding me...

imho, when she said the b* word, that just burned her chance of ever getting invited.

i mean, come on, do you really want someone attending your wedding that thinks your a b*tch?
ourwedding9510 Posted:

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NO WAY! No invite! Send her a 'you're not invited...signed b*tch'! People become too crazy during wedding, asking to be invited. If you want to take the high road though and still not invite her just message her back 'sorry sweetie, walked away from my desk...I'm sorry but we just have too much family to invite everyone we know. Sorry but we'll get together soon.' ME? I'd email her back and tell her where to go!!!!

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