Ok about to break down...

Ok about to break down...

Im 2 sec. from throwing my side kick across the room and calling it off with fh. I love him so much and it is a shame that we are being put through this. FMIL is causing so much drama. FIrst thing is she is PISSED because my mom or anyone else from my bridal party hasnt contacted her about the bridal shower before the invitations went out.i know that is annoying but is it worth casuing drama over. At least she got an invite. it isnt even like she is going to come she lives in NC and doesnt want to board the dogs. Then she is pissed about the hotel rooms. We blocked a few rooms at the wingate and she is annoyed that my bridal party and friends are staying there in fear that there will not be enough rooms for the family from ireland. Im telling you this is a whole hotel. So she thinks that my friends should have to forfit thier rooms if thier isnt enough rooms. keep in mind that the family from ireland has had thier invites since jan. Then i am getting rsvp back and some of my family has responded not comming which i guess i have to expect (just adds to my sadness). i feel like i cant keep anybody happy. my bridal party is arguing with everyone including my mom. sorry so long ill stop Thanks for letting me vent. I love him and the fact i am hoping this day comes and goes so i can move on.

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Hang in there-- this will pass. It will be all worth it in the end

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aw honey Im sorry that she is doing this to you Try to ignore her, I know easier said then done but you cant make everyone happy and thats just the way it is.
for you!

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thank god your FMIL lives in NC mines lives 10 minutes away...and sometimes she causes serious drama

hang in there

p.s- never worth it to FIGHT with FH over her, learned my lesson

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Hang in there, you have less than 3 months. Unfortunately, the stress isn't going to get much better but try to think about the positive--a gorgeous day with a gorgeous man who you get to spend the rest of your life with! I think that's what's getting me through these last few hurdles when I feel like telling everyone off! Lots of and if I ever figure out how to flip someone off with an emoticon, I send one to the FMIL

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Hang in there.... It can be frustrating listening to these people nag, nag ,nag!! But, please, don't think that your wedding should be over with sooner because of them!! Think of it as a joyous occasion for you and your FH! Don't let anyone get in the way of your happiness

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Awww, hang in there. Try to just let her comments roll...my FMIL is great but my mom is driving me nuts. I've stopped listening to half the things she says! I'm sure things will all work out!!

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I think once you stop trying to please everyon you will be OK. This is YOUR wedding girl- not thiers. When your FMIL calls you up with shower cr@p you just tell her that you are not involved with the planning of your shower and if she has a problem with anything then she should call your mother.

Secondly, tell FMIL that this is the hotel 'we' chose. There are plenty of rooms. If it should happen that they run out of rooms we can deal with that at that time. No need to worry over something that hasn't happend yet.

Grab onto your balls and pull them tight bc people are going to be giving you sh!t for the rest of your life if you don't straighten them out now.

Oh- and your BM's. You tell them that that is your mother and to have some respect. So what if she want's to do something they don't like. You are her daughter and she's probably been anticipating this moment since you were born.

Tell everyone to get a grip!

I'm sorry if this came out harsh but I am so f'ing sick and tired of reading post after post about how f'd up family members are being to brides. What the heck is thier problem? Don't they realize that planning a wedding is stressful enough? How about being a little less selfish and a little more selfless.

You'll be Ok along with everyone else. Hey, i've had my share of problems too with my FMIL. It's gonna be fine!

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You'll get through it. Don't let the emotional aspect of her pissing you off dampen your plans. You go about what you were doing, and keep it that way.

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