OK - feeling much better. Tried on my very first wedding dress - PICS attached ---VENTING!!! anyone work with FI and deal with this crap?
FI and I sort of work together. His company does work for my company and sometimes he is even in my office building. That is not even why I'm pissed.
This weekend FI's company worked in my office and we typically have someone work the fax department on Saturdays. The woman who worked this weekend in the fax department is known as the most scandalous secretary in the office. She came to our company about 11 years ago since she slept her way through her last job - which was confirmed by other people who worked at that law firm.
Anyway, she dresses like she is going to work a pole or something although she's about 40 years old and not in the shape to wear such clothes - even some see through stuff. She has propositioned FI several times over the years including inviting him to some all girls trip to the Poconos about 3 years ago.
Did I mentioned she's married and has been for at least 10 years?!?! He never went although he was polite and took the number she gave him.
So, this woman knows FI from work and also because she auditioned for a video shoot he did 10 years ago (FI was a musician in a former life). So, basically she was a groupie who still chases him down all the time even though he ignores her as much as possible. She even complained to a friend of mine that FI gives her no attention when she is showing as much skin as possible at work. LOL
She has even resorted to following him around the building on the days he works in this office. She waited for him for like 10 minutes at the elevator one day when she saw him come into my office and close the door. He went to the elevator and she was still there and had not even hit the call button.
This same woman, who was my assistant in 2000, lied to FI in 2000 when he first asked her about me and if I was involved. She told him I was a really mean person and horrible to work for as a secretary.
My issue is that a lot of people at work do not know for sure that FI and I are together. We've kept it from everyone since 2003 except my close friends and my assistant.
People here are just sooooo nosey. We went away to Paris for my birthday in March and my assistant told me that people asked her if I went to Paris with FI since some people knew he was out of the country on vacation in paris. My assistant, per my instructions, said I was in Jamaica for my birthday. LOL LOL The people that asked are not even people I work with or talk - they are just nosey %sses.
So, my reason for all this is my scandalous former secretary hit on FI this weekend and he told her to basically bug off. She sort of knows we are together but can't confirm it.
So, today a guy that works in the mailroom or something asked FI if he was involved, if it's serious and was he getting married!!!! She totally put this guy up to it, I know that much, and I totally want to go to her cubicle (on my floor) and smack her silly for being so nosey.
FI put her in her place a while ago when she asked him about me 3 times in one week. He asked if she was 'obessed' with me and she has not asked him anything else about me since then.
I am so pissed with these nosey people. They are all like 35 - 40 years old and apparently have no lives. So much so that they all will die if they don't find out if FI and I are really involved. FI told me not to say anything and that she will find out for sure just like everyone else - when I get my ring in a few weeks.
I still want to punch this chick!!!!
Thanks for listening.
ETA- I'm over it now. I called every authorized Bonny dealer in Manhattan and none had a sample of the dress I want to try. I did find one store in Chinatown that had a very similar dress though and I went to try it on. It's the very first time I ever tried on a wedding dress too. It was pretty fun and it was actually a size 6. I always heard dresses ran small. I guess that's designers other than Mori Lee.
This is not the dress I plan to purchase but it's close.
Link to pics.Mori Lee dress I tried on tonight
This weekend FI's company worked in my office and we typically have someone work the fax department on Saturdays. The woman who worked this weekend in the fax department is known as the most scandalous secretary in the office. She came to our company about 11 years ago since she slept her way through her last job - which was confirmed by other people who worked at that law firm.
Anyway, she dresses like she is going to work a pole or something although she's about 40 years old and not in the shape to wear such clothes - even some see through stuff. She has propositioned FI several times over the years including inviting him to some all girls trip to the Poconos about 3 years ago.
Did I mentioned she's married and has been for at least 10 years?!?! He never went although he was polite and took the number she gave him.
So, this woman knows FI from work and also because she auditioned for a video shoot he did 10 years ago (FI was a musician in a former life). So, basically she was a groupie who still chases him down all the time even though he ignores her as much as possible. She even complained to a friend of mine that FI gives her no attention when she is showing as much skin as possible at work. LOL
She has even resorted to following him around the building on the days he works in this office. She waited for him for like 10 minutes at the elevator one day when she saw him come into my office and close the door. He went to the elevator and she was still there and had not even hit the call button.
This same woman, who was my assistant in 2000, lied to FI in 2000 when he first asked her about me and if I was involved. She told him I was a really mean person and horrible to work for as a secretary.
My issue is that a lot of people at work do not know for sure that FI and I are together. We've kept it from everyone since 2003 except my close friends and my assistant.
People here are just sooooo nosey. We went away to Paris for my birthday in March and my assistant told me that people asked her if I went to Paris with FI since some people knew he was out of the country on vacation in paris. My assistant, per my instructions, said I was in Jamaica for my birthday. LOL LOL The people that asked are not even people I work with or talk - they are just nosey %sses.
So, my reason for all this is my scandalous former secretary hit on FI this weekend and he told her to basically bug off. She sort of knows we are together but can't confirm it.
So, today a guy that works in the mailroom or something asked FI if he was involved, if it's serious and was he getting married!!!! She totally put this guy up to it, I know that much, and I totally want to go to her cubicle (on my floor) and smack her silly for being so nosey.
FI put her in her place a while ago when she asked him about me 3 times in one week. He asked if she was 'obessed' with me and she has not asked him anything else about me since then.
I am so pissed with these nosey people. They are all like 35 - 40 years old and apparently have no lives. So much so that they all will die if they don't find out if FI and I are really involved. FI told me not to say anything and that she will find out for sure just like everyone else - when I get my ring in a few weeks.
I still want to punch this chick!!!!
Thanks for listening.
ETA- I'm over it now. I called every authorized Bonny dealer in Manhattan and none had a sample of the dress I want to try. I did find one store in Chinatown that had a very similar dress though and I went to try it on. It's the very first time I ever tried on a wedding dress too. It was pretty fun and it was actually a size 6. I always heard dresses ran small. I guess that's designers other than Mori Lee.
This is not the dress I plan to purchase but it's close.
Link to pics.Mori Lee dress I tried on tonight
