Ok, gonna kill the lady from my RH...

Original post by KittyGags

Dec 04, 2008 06:31 PM

I've had a problem with being called Kathy since I was ummm BORN.

So, the lady (not my BM but her asst that handles all the paperwork & Day to day duties) from my RH keeps calling me Kathy. I've explicitly asked her twice to cut it out, and she apologizes each time...

Today I get a copy of some paperwork from them and guess what? Its addressed to Kathy. It was like someone instantly took my blood pressure through the roof.

So my thing here is, WHAT doesn't she get? And why do people call people by nicknames that they request to not be called? And lastly, HOW do I get her to stop?

My FH thinks i'm insane but I'm like, thats because its not her calling you MIKEY! And sorry to any Kathys out there, its just not my name. I do accept Kat and actually prefer it.

Robin if you're reading this, STOP.

Autumnbride03 Posted: Dec 05, 2008 02:55 PM

Re: Ok, gonna kill the lady from my RH...

I wonder if someone entered you in their system as Kathy- that is annoying!

People have all sorts of nicknames for me, Becky, Becka, Beck, Beckster (you get the hint) but for some reason I don't like 'Becks' and that is what my mom decides to call me lol. FH's 5 year old nephew calls me that too but it's cute when he does it.

FutureMrsC614 Posted: Dec 05, 2008 02:59 PM

Re: Ok, gonna kill the lady from my RH...

Posted by BarbieGrl10

I totally understand how you feel! People do it to me all the time with my name and there is one nickname I really dont like, but people use them anyway... my MOH does it to me alllllllllll the time!
I would put a HUGE red mark through Kathy and write your name above it and send it back to her.

that's perfect!!!! I second that!!