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JenMike331 Posted:

ok help!

does it REALLLLLLLLY matter where the groom and bride sit at the sweetheart table?....i think i did it 'wrong' (whatever that means) and i don't feel like fixing the whole entire table set up paperwork.

eta as u can see the stress is making me question myself OVER AND OVER AGAIN!
vmystique33 Posted:

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usually they sit in the middle

ETA: I was thinking of the bridal table lol
znycgirl Posted:

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No: I think this is a 'new thing' anyway. Bride & groom used to sit with rest of the bridal party. Does anything REALLY matter? I never knew about the sweetheart table until I was getting married: most weddings I've been to, the bride and groom are never sitting.

JenMike331 Posted:

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Posted by znycgirl

No: I think this is a 'new thing' anyway. Bride & groom used to sit with rest of the bridal party. Does anything REALLY matter? I never knew about the sweetheart table until I was getting married: most weddings I've been to, the bride and groom are never sitting.



very true....
JenMike331 Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33

usually they sit in the middle

ETA: I was thinking of the bridal table lol



ok but is there an 'appropriate way' that u r suppossed to sit, like is the bride suppossed to sit on the right or lefthand side of the groom?
Future Mrs. Posted:

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so doesn't matter..........you're not going to sit for a minute anyway.

vmystique33 Posted:

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Posted by JenMike331


Posted by vmystique33

usually they sit in the middle

ETA: I was thinking of the bridal table lol



ok but is there an 'appropriate way' that u r suppossed to sit, like is the bride suppossed to sit on the right or lefthand side of the groom?



I dont think so hold on I will go look @ some pics BRB
JenMike331 Posted:

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Posted by Future Mrs.

so doesn't matter..........you're not going to sit for a minute anyway.



soooooooo true ....i made my table seating and i made me sit on the lefthand side of fh and that means all my fam is on my side and his fam is on his side is that ok?
JenMike331 Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33


Posted by JenMike331


Posted by vmystique33

usually they sit in the middle

ETA: I was thinking of the bridal table lol



ok but is there an 'appropriate way' that u r suppossed to sit, like is the bride suppossed to sit on the right or lefthand side of the groom?



I dont think so hold on I will go look @ some pics BRB



thank u sooo much
vmystique33 Posted:

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Ok lol heres a pic of Ziamarias wedding

ETA : But it is tru that you wont be sitting there for long lol
qtdimps23 Posted:

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Posted by JenMike331

soooooooo true ....i made my table seating and i made me sit on the lefthand side of fh and that means all my fam is on my side and his fam is on his side is that ok?



im sitting on the side where my family is and he'll sit on the side his family is. but i think either way it does matter.
JenMike331 Posted:

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Posted by vmystique33

Ok lol heres a pic of Ziamarias wedding

ETA : But it is tru that you wont be sitting there for long lol



thanks sooooooooooo much for looking for me!!!!! i found some too and the bride was on the other side so im thinking it REALLLLLLLLLY DOESNT MATTER....thank goodness
JenMike331 Posted:

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Posted by qtdimps23


Posted by JenMike331

soooooooo true ....i made my table seating and i made me sit on the lefthand side of fh and that means all my fam is on my side and his fam is on his side is that ok?



im sitting on the side where my family is and he'll sit on the side his family is. but i think either way it does matter.



ok that makes me feel better im gonna go be stressed about something else ridiculous crap u start to stress over when it gets down to TWO FREAKIN WEEKS!!!!!!!!!1
vmystique33 Posted:

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Posted by JenMike331


Posted by vmystique33

Ok lol heres a pic of Ziamarias wedding

ETA : But it is tru that you wont be sitting there for long lol



thanks sooooooooooo much for looking for me!!!!! i found some too and the bride was on the other side so im thinking it REALLLLLLLLLY DOESNT MATTER....thank goodness



Your welcome
PegaLega Posted:

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It doesnt matter...but I did get this from a previous bride. She said before the wedding you are on the left, after the marriage you on his right side because you are always right! But I dont think it matters. Im sitting where ever my behind lands

JenMike331 Posted:

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Posted by PegaLega

It doesnt matter...but I did get this from a previous bride. She said before the wedding you are on the left, after the marriage you on his right side because you are always right! But I dont think it matters. Im sitting where ever my behind lands



thank u
Future Mrs. Posted:

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Posted by JenMike331


Posted by Future Mrs.

so doesn't matter..........you're not going to sit for a minute anyway.



soooooooo true ....i made my table seating and i made me sit on the lefthand side of fh and that means all my fam is on my side and his fam is on his side is that ok?



yes...its fine. Besides, you're sitting with family....they're not going to mind where you are! You won't be sitting anyway, but since its your family you have even less to worry about b/c they are your family! They can't get offended.
Good idea by the way....
kris01 Posted:

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I would not worry about.....sit whereever you want...
I plan on sitting on the same side as my family..

jjk1007 Posted:

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It doesnt matter! Everything will still be beautiful and perfect!!

prinses777 Posted:

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I would sit on the side you photographer better on when sitting... like if your hair is up and your hair pin or some kind of accent on 1 side of your head and its on the right hand side... I would sit on the right hand side so in all the pics you will be able to see it when they ask you to pose.

Get it? Am I making sense?

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