ok how do you stay calm when you have so much todo?
amalia
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ok how do you stay calm when you have so much todo?
i am freaking out i am planning everything alone and my fiancee works wierd hours so its all on me how do you stay calm in times like this?
SteffieSunshine1
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Who stays calm!?
DrmnBlnd
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The only way I have stayed calm through this whole process was by doing things a little at a time, and over a long period of time (we had a 2 year engagement). Otherwise, I'd be a complete basket case!
nsgraham
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Exactly. I'm not calm, I'm second guessing everything. I have my 8 year old brother with me now and i'm taking him out, or else I'd be doing something else yet again for the wedding. Calm? Hah!
SReidy
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I was constantly rethinking EVERYTHING and constantly worrying and having anxiety over every little thing!! Finally I made a list of everything (That I could think of) that we needed to do and made a DONE/BOOKED column and then a TO DO/TO BOOK column and kept adding to it as I thought of stuff we had forgotten. Now I carry that list and a notebook with me EVERYWHERE!!! This way if I see something I like I make a note of it in the book and if I see something that needs to be done I write it on the list. I feel that it's helped A TON!!! Happy planning- remember, this is SUPPOSED to be FUN!
Jess2
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Posted by SReidy
I was constantly rethinking EVERYTHING and constantly worrying and having anxiety over every little thing!!
Me too! The latest is that my dress is supposed to be in by this week and is STILL not in! It better come this week! I am worrying about every little thing, so you are definately not alone!
SReidy
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It's nice to know I'm not alone!! =)
tracyg
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Booze!!! lots of it!!!
may04bride
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TracyG I second that!
itsbouttime
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i've been totally calm til about last week. all of a sudden it seems real. i thought i was breezing thru the planning. but now all the little things that really aren't 'so little' are coming up and starting to feel the heat. 4 months from tomorrow.......yikes!!!!!!!
