ok I am confused, please help!!!

mtk1605 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 01:33 PM

ok I am confused, please help!!!

Ok here is my problem....

I have 55 people who have yet to respond and the cut off is tomorrow. I didnt have he luxury of having the rsvp cut off date a month prior to the wedding...i have 4 days!!!

So here s my dilemma.....what if the people that did not respond show up??? I will not have place cards or seats for them....what happens then???

dont get me wrong, i will be on super stalk mode come sunday morning calling all 55 people and hoping to get responses. Hopefully i will get a ton of cards today and tomorrow!!

kitkat82 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:14 PM

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I would call them tonight or right now.

CrazyLove11 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:29 PM

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Call them today. If they don't answer, leave a message syaing that you have to tell your RH the final number on ____ and if you do not hear back from them then you will assume they are unable to make it.
If you get someone on the phone and they say they still don't know or whatever - tell them the same thing: Get back to me by noon tomorrow otherwise I'll assume you cannot attend and will not include you in my final count.

Cataverri Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:30 PM

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Call them NOWWWWWWW.....I mean the guest.

mtk1605 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:34 PM

Re: ok I am confused, please help!!!

I will def be calling them but what if some still show up...what does th RH do?? I am fine ith them charging me for it but there will not be place ettings for them or place cards etc...

Decbride2010 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:38 PM

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Call today. Call today. call today. call today.

ourwedding9510 Posted: Mar 11, 2011 02:51 PM

Re: ok I am confused, please help!!!

Posted by mtk1605

I will def be calling them but what if some still show up...what does th RH do?? I am fine ith them charging me for it but there will not be place ettings for them or place cards etc...

The hall find seats for them. If there is room then they will add a table need be (if necessary) but they usually find seats, PLUS you might have no shows too that they can sit in those seats. The hall will take care of it if they show up but if you call them and they don't get back to you, it is VERY rare they will just show up.

deeda1129 Posted: Mar 12, 2011 02:14 AM

Re: ok I am confused, please help!!!

Posted by mtk1605

Ok here is my problem....

I have 55 people who have yet to respond and the cut off is tomorrow. I didnt have he luxury of having the rsvp cut off date a month prior to the wedding...i have 4 days!!!

So here s my dilemma.....what if the people that did not respond show up??? I will not have place cards or seats for them....what happens then???

dont get me wrong, i will be on super stalk mode come sunday morning calling all 55 people and hoping to get responses. Hopefully i will get a ton of cards today and tomorrow!!

call them now. I started calling a week before the RSVP date for the engagement party. If people have waited that long, they likely forgot or lost track of time. Relieve your stress and contact them now

StephanieJoy Posted: Mar 12, 2011 08:13 AM

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So sorry this happend to you. Call now hope it all works out for you.

jettahot Posted: Mar 12, 2011 08:29 AM

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DEF CALL!!

CantWaitMrsH Posted: Mar 12, 2011 08:53 AM

Re: ok I am confused, please help!!!

most times people who wait until the last minute or dont respond arent coming ... however, i would call, email, text etc. you just want to make sure their invites got their. i would also insist they give an answer and remind them that this is a wedding, not a chuck e cheese birthday party! i have to say that i think its quite rude that that large of a number of people didnt respond. i would be livid and would probably leave a message saying ... 'since you DIDNT take the time to respond, please DONT take the time to show up!' just saying lol

sorry this happened to you!

mtk1605 Posted: Mar 12, 2011 08:54 AM

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Posted by CantWaitMrsH

most times people who wait until the last minute or dont respond arent coming ... however, i would call, email, text etc. you just want to make sure their invites got their. i would also insist they give an answer and remind them that this is a wedding, not a chuck e cheese birthday party! i have to say that i think its quite rude that that large of a number of people didnt respond. i would be livid and would probably leave a message saying ... 'since you DIDNT take the time to respond, please DONT take the time to show up!' just saying lol

sorry this happened to you!

Lolololol

mtk1605 Posted: Mar 12, 2011 09:41 AM

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I have face booked, called, texted, sent smoke signals.....hopefully I will have my answers by todays end!! I have met my minimum soi am super psyched on that!!!