OK I am having my first official 'I have no time to get it all done' panic attack!

MerSaysEh Posted: Jul 30, 2010 11:54 AM

OK I am having my first official 'I have no time to get it all done' panic attack!

I;m 3.5 months out and I feel like NOTHING is ready or close to being ready

add to it that soon we have to send our guest list to the calligrapher and our numbers are WAAAAAAAAY too high and FH and I are going to have to go thru and slash people off our parents' lists which is undoubtedly gonna PISS people off but our venue has a 200 MAX, our min is 175 and our guest list is like 245

i'm havibng trouble breathing. help.

Becca2010 Posted: Jul 30, 2010 11:58 AM

Re: OK I am having my first official 'I have no time to get it all done' panic attack!

You're going to be OK!

If you're guest list is at 245, just slash off about 20 and make them class B. Invite them if/when you get enough Nos from the original list.

You're not alone with the freaking out tho, I'm right there with you!!!

hamptonsbride2010 Posted: Jul 30, 2010 12:02 PM

Re: OK I am having my first official 'I have no time to get it all done' panic attack!

I'm freaking out too... but last night FH made me laugh he said' can you turn off Bridezilla Heather mode and get back to normal Heather'

please!

so take a deep breath - it will happen!

AwaitingAugust Posted: Jul 30, 2010 12:05 PM

Re: OK I am having my first official 'I have no time to get it all done' panic attack!

Don't freak out ... you have enough time to get everything done ... you'll see!

kassy30 Posted: Jul 30, 2010 12:06 PM

Re: OK I am having my first official 'I have no time to get it all done' panic attack!

It will be ok - I invited 240 and many people said no because we had ALOT of OOT guests. One thing I have learned is that you can't please everyone! They say 20% say no- just keep that in mind.

futureMrsJSL Posted: Jul 30, 2010 12:07 PM

Re: OK I am having my first official 'I have no time to get it all done' panic attack!

This was me like 3 weeks ago, with the guest list. You can only do what you can do, and your parents, hopefully can understand. Try and cut the people who you have not had much contact me in the last six months to a year, or the people you do not feel as close to. It'll all work out