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Ok is it just me or what the heck!!!

girlygrl33 Posted:

Ok is it just me or what the heck!!!

Did you guys have all these vendors call your home leave messages and leave you emails???????? where did they come from and this is good I got an email thanking me for registering to longislandweddingmall.com- r they serious I never heard of them. Im soooo pissed its like invading ya know!!!!
ChristineC68 Posted:

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I think catering halls frequently give their preferred vendors the contact info of people that book with them.

If you have been to any expos and provided accurate contact info, believe me you will be contacted.

And here is LIW's privacy policy regarding providing information to a 3rd party:


Any third party to which LIWeddings.com shares, rents, sells, or otherwise discloses personal data will be under a contractual obligation to use the personal data for marketing products and services which LIWeddings.com determines, in its sole judgment, that visitors might find of interest. LIWeddings.com will use its reasonable efforts to identify such third parties who may have products or services of interest to visitors to LIWeddings.com' site. However, such parties are independent third parties over which LIWeddings.com exercises no control, and therefore LIWeddings.com is not responsible for their conduct, products, or services, and will not be liable therefor. LIWeddings.com will disclose to third parties only information in aggregate form, that is publicly available, and/or that is knowingly and voluntarily disclosed by visitors. If there are advertisements on LIWeddings.com' Web site, through the use of third party cookies, the advertiser(s) will be electronically notified when visitors view or click on its advertisements.

girlygrl33 Posted:

Re: Ok is it just me or what the heck!!!

wow thats a lot of info, so ok but i didnt give my number out hmmm, its just so annoying, today i had 7 vendors on my machine!!! its out of control but I guess i have to expect it. thanks for responding
ChristineC68 Posted:

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I used to get repeated calls - mostly from entertainment companies. They were the worst for some reason. I told them everything and anything to get them to stop.

suezboss Posted:

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Posted by girlygrl33

wow thats a lot of info, so ok but i didnt give my number out hmmm, its just so annoying, today i had 7 vendors on my machine!!! its out of control but I guess i have to expect it. thanks for responding



DID YOU GO TO ANY BRIDAL SHOW???

right after my first bridal show, that following week i got a gozillion phone calls... ever since then i NEVER register my info at the Bridal Shows!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Oh- and I too got an e-mail sayhing 'thank you for registering' to that thing...?? I just hit Delete!
Dooodles Posted:

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Have not been to one bridal show and I keep getting emails from the same person saying how wonderful it was to meet me at such and such bridal show. I have responded to her that we have never met, and each week, she emails me again. Delete key and I are having a wonderful relationship these days.

wintergirl06 Posted:

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I mostly use my cell phone number, and leave my cell off most of the day. I can delete a message a few seconds into it if I want to. Pain in the butt, but it's the only downside to the planning so far!

livestar24 Posted:

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The calls have somewhat stopped for us now, but after we first started looking at halls we got a million calls from vendors. We got a lot of mail from places too. I figured out that it was Fox Hollow that gave out my information. On a copy of an estimate they gave us they wrote my name but they spelled my last name wrong by reversing a few letters. I noticed that all of the mail I received for the next few months from vendors was with that spelling of my name, obviously connected to Fox Hollow. I was really annoyed because we didn't even book with them. I didn't like the fact that they were able to give out my information like that just from us coming to look at the hall. I didn't realize they could or would do things like that.

DebMaher Posted:

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The deal is that weddings site (even our beloved LIW/NYW) and wedding vendors all function on a referral basis and many make $$ off of referrals and selling prospects. So frequently names get passed along.
NEVER:
use your home number or give out personal email.
We have made it very clear to our vendors that they are NOT to pass on our name and the thing to do to put an end to it is clearly to informe the vendor that you have selected someone else and do not need their services. PERIOD. If you are not buying there is nothing to sell.
girlygrl33 Posted:

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Good point!!! YOu know what YEs I went to the bridal expo at the marriot but the only vendor i gave my number was to things remembered !!! those pieces of ****, I was racking my brain and when you said expo there you go- I get tons of mail too. ahhh the joys of planning lol
DebMaher Posted:

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Remember, you are of no interest to them if you are not a bride so:
1. tell them you eloped
2. tell them you hired someone else firmly.
nferrandi Posted:

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You will definitely get bombarded for a little while, but it does get better. When people call, just tell them that you've already booked that vendor.

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