ok it finally happens i am freaking out....as i sit here crying.......
angl2001
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ok it finally happens i am freaking out....as i sit here crying.......
Yes it finally happened of all people to ME! lol i have been cool as a cucumber thru everything and this week i started freaking. I am so upset right now trying to figure out where the rest of this $$ is comming from. I am so worried we wont work it out. Steve has been NO HELP the last few months i am totally freaking! i really didnt think i would freak out at all! I didnt expect to be out of work as long as i was and that totally screwed us! UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
i need a drink!!
sorry to rant on i am just so upset right now. i feel sick i already puked 2 times :(
LuvMyAlfonse
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Oh Heather. I am so sorry. Don't freak out. You still have time to come up with a plan....
I know this is coming at such a bad time with your FHs family member being sick.
You need a glass of wine and a really, really good cry. Cry until you have a headache and you exhaust yourself.
I am so sorry.
katleigh3
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You need to chill, Heather!!!! Freaking out is not going to help you at all. Steve has very little interest in helping and you knew this all along. As the joke goes...tell him where and what time...
You have been planning and saving for over 2 years. It WILL come together.
Go have that drink!!!!!!
I am the voice of reason...you know I say all of this out of love, right?
Espo22
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Just relax and try to calm down. Sit down and try to figure out how much you have left to pay and what can be done. Sit down with steve though to make sure you both figure out a way to do this. I am sure you'll figure it all out dont worry
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THE SAME THING IS HAPPENING TO ME RIGHT NOW..AND I ONLY HAVE 42 DAYS LEFT..WELL LESS SINCE FINAL PAYMENTS ARE DUE 2 WEEKS BEFORE..
BUT WE HAVE 4 WEEKS TO COME UP WITH ABOUT $3000
I THINK WE WILL BE ALRIGHT..BUT ITS SCARY AND I HAVE BAD DREAMS EVERYNIGHT AND DONT GET ANY SLEEP..IT *****
I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND..
THAS WHY I WANNA ELOPE!!....HAHA
YOU'LL BE FINE..WERE CLM BRIDES..WE NEED TO FEAR NOTHING!!!!!!!!
DCLM726
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Heather, I am so sorry to hear that you are feeling this way. It will work out in the end. If you need to talk, you can always FM me.
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you know it will work out!!! hang in there and stop making yourself sick--draw up a plan!!
if only i listened to my own advice....
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Oh Heather try not to get so upset. It will come together. You have been so great at this whole planning process dont get stressed out now. Relax , have a drink you will figure it out
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im so sorry your freaking out! i think we're all in the same boat! try and relax you still have time to come up with a plan! it will work out!
xXxNovember08xXx
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heather.. dont worry... im sending you FM
angl2001
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Thanls ladies i just called my MOH (armyofbabies) and she calmed me down a little. I just never thought of all people I would freak out lol. Thanks for all your posts...im sure it will be ok just right now it doesnt feel that way... i <3 u girls!
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HEATHER! Calm down, I know how hard it is, but you'll definitely get through this. Anything I can do... you call and tell me okay? You've still got time to figure this out, and I'm still up for robbing that bank, you just let me know when and where.
Soon2BMrsD
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your def. not alone!!! I was in a dream world when i first got engaged thinking i could plan a LI wedding for 20k EVERYTHING including honeymoon.. man was i wrong.. FH is super organized and had a spread sheet of everything we've paid and what we owe.. i literally started to CRY when i saw what we still Owe.. its enough to pay off ALL OF MY SCHOOL LOANS!! and were using it for a wedding your not alone! many many for you!
angl2001
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Posted by Soon2BMrsD
your def. not alone!!! I was in a dream world when i first got engaged thinking i could plan a LI wedding for 20k EVERYTHING including honeymoon.. man was i wrong.. FH is super organized and had a spread sheet of everything we've paid and what we owe.. i literally started to CRY when i saw what we still Owe.. its enough to pay off ALL OF MY SCHOOL LOANS!! and were using it for a wedding your not alone! many many for you!
the thing is i am only spending about 20K and i cant come up with it lol thats whats making me crazy! lol
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Heather, sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and prayers that your financial needs will be met, and you can feel happy and peaceful!!! Love ya, hon!!!!!!!! Mary MOB
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You will figure it out!!! Try to relax. Getting yourself sick isn't going to help. go have a drink and take a nice bubble bath.
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ohhhh nooooooooo! its the domino effect. Now IM freaking out!!!! Grabbing a glass of wine right now..
You will be okay. breatheeeeeeeeeeee
Soon2BMrsD
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Posted by angl2001
Posted by Soon2BMrsD
your def. not alone!!! I was in a dream world when i first got engaged thinking i could plan a LI wedding for 20k EVERYTHING including honeymoon.. man was i wrong.. FH is super organized and had a spread sheet of everything we've paid and what we owe.. i literally started to CRY when i saw what we still Owe.. its enough to pay off ALL OF MY SCHOOL LOANS!! and were using it for a wedding your not alone! many many for you!
the thing is i am only spending about 20K and i cant come up with it lol thats whats making me crazy! lol
it doesnt matter what the price it.. money is money and if you dont have it.. its stressful!! tons of for you! it will all work out!
angl2001
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Thanks again ladies........
i just talked to steve and told him NOT to make plans tomorrow cause he is spending most of the day going ove wedding stuff with me! and not 10 minutes i told him i am going over EVERY piece of paper, every contract EVERYTHING so he better be ready lol
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