Ok ladies....what do you think about this one...

So since the wedding has been literally coming up so fast, I am starting to notice a few things that are kinda bothering me...

1) my fh's family really is not very nice. Like they are being veryyyyy selfish. They have a gripe and complaint about my family or my wedding like everyday. its starting to piss me off.

2) my bm's just don't care. with the exception of like 2 of them. But they don't want to do anything to help me.

3) My family is starting to get on my last nerves too, but not as bad as FH's. Like they are talking a lot of sssshhhh1111ttttt. Its annoying.

Do I say something? I kinda blew up on everyone last week, but now I'm hearing that they hate this one and they don't like what this one said but if you want my opinion, I think they are the aholes in this situation. i really just want to cancel the rehersal dinner and not give them any self satisfaction. Its really pissing me off and I feel like they are purposely doing this now so FH and I fight.

Hang in there, you're in the home stretch! I wouldn't bother saying anything- I know I sure didn't and I felt the exact same way as you do! I couldn't stand ANYONE the weeks before the wedding! Good luck!

Honestly, I wouldn't say anything now. If it still bothers you after the wedding, then say something, but if you say something before-they might acuse you of being a bridezilla.
Sorry they're all pi$$ing you off

AWWW Hun I'm SO sorry you are going through this! I feel your pain! I think that bridal parties and families should keep it to themselves AFTER the wedding about other people. I went through something similar and I fough with someone for a week about it, not speaking, emailing, ANYTHING (we usually speak 4 times a day). I finally spoke to her and I spoke to the rest of the bridal party and told them 'if you have something to say about anyone, tell someone else. I have enough going on and I would appreciate if you could just smile and nod. If you can't get along with everyone and just feel the need to complain then we'll have to find another way for you to be party of this wedding.' It was bridezilla of me but the comments stopped. One girl said something the other day but I told her 'I don't want to hear it' and to call another BM. I speak to the families less and less as the wedding is getting closer because I just don't want to hear it. When I do speak to them I just either yes them to death or give them little information and tell them its a surprise HAHA!

You'll get through it. Just keep thinking 'marrying FH is more important then all this other BS!'

GL!

do not say anything right now.. just wait after the wedding..

Dont cancel your RD... don't punish yourself for their selfishness.

and you are not alone. Right now my BP and family is getting on my nerves too!! You are not alone.

if your not having an actual rehersal just the dinner I kinda agree to cancel it- do you really want these people to be together for another day other than the wedding if there all pissing you off. Sorry tell FH to put them in their place for you

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Posted by StaceyWill

Honestly, I wouldn't say anything now. If it still bothers you after the wedding, then say something, but if you say something before-they might acuse you of being a bridezilla.
Sorry they're all pi$$ing you off

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