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Ok little vent

browneyes Posted:

Ok little vent

ok so one of my Bm is prego and i am soo happy for her, then today i just found out another BM is prego as i am happy for her aswell shes due in september and its cutting it close to the wedding date so now i fear A.what if she dosnt fit in her dress and B. what if she has the baby late n isnt at the wedding,, Not that its a huge deal and i dont want to sound selfish but arrrghh it makes me mad why dose everyone have to get pregnet the year of Our wedding! haha ok im done venting... And dont get me wrong i Love them both to death and i am super excitied for them, its just a little damper on our Big day!

Ok thats all
meara Posted:

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nah I know what you mean.. i understand why you're getting stressed but IMO it's best to just let go - my sis is preggo and didn't want to committ to a dress b/c she's not sure she's going to fit into one. . so finally I just bought one that she could get altered. .and said if she didn't want it - I'd just keep it. .. . . just try not to let it stress you out. . as long as YOURE looking good. .. and worse comes to worst she can just do a reading, or be one BM shorter!
Dani777 Posted:

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I know exactly what you mean... I don'thave the same situation but simular... my oldest sister got bypass surgary since she was soo overweight for soo long... so she has no idea what size she will be in April... Time will only tell....But I know the frustrations...

Cacarina Posted:

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I totally know how you are feeling. Two of my BMs. Neither will be pregnant on my wedding day and they both have enough time to lose the weight and fit into the dress, but I know how you feel. I just kind of felt like 2009 was OUR year (me and FH) and now there is a slight damper put on it cause we will have 2 new babies in the family clouding the excitement. I feel bad even saying it, but I can't help how I feel.
geegee827 Posted:

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Really don't stress over the issue. When my friend got married a few years ago, one of our other friends (who was also in the BP) was 9 months pregnant! My one friend got married July 19 and my other friend had her baby 4 days later on July 23!

When we went to order dresses, we just explained that she was pregnant and would be 9 months at the wedding. The saleslady and the seamstress made everyone feel completely at ease and it was perfect. She looked beautiful.

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