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Ok.. Ms Outgoing is in Tears now.. AGAIN!

Original post by VCanizalez

Im sorry
I know I know I always speak about this....

But i just cant get it over with!!!!!!!!!!

THIS SUCKS!!!!

I know i am marrying the MAN of my DREAMS.. the ONe and only!!!
But I thought I was a GOOD person.. I thought I was a GOOD friend!!!!!....
and No seeing everyone elses Bridal party.. and Brides reviews where I see them with the WHOLE bridal party, just got me to tears...
SO I AM CRYING LIKE A BABY NOW...

SUCK SUCKSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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awww, don't be sad chica! you still have time to make friends but if you don't have a big bridal party, that's okay.

It doesn't make you a bad person or a mean person.


Chanwich Posted:

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Aww, Veronica, I'm sorry you are dealing with all of this stupid stress from your supposed 'friends'. Honestly, weddings bring out people's worst, especially if they are jealous. As long as you are surrounded by people who love you and are there for YOU and FH, your day will be wonderful
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by fdnybride163


Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by fdnybride163


at this rate i dont think i will EVER be getting married. we havent set the date yet so I AM ALLLLLLLLL YOURS!!!!!!



OMG MY MY THAS A BIG KISS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

U havent set a date yet?! for wedding or HM???



either, we are a big friggin mess..

actually its not that bad, we were waiting to here from my cousin when she was getting married, and now that its sept 10th 2011, we are trying to figure out when we will get married.

i might have to push it back to spring of 2012 cause we dont want to do a winter wedding, and oct dates are pretty booked up for places that I want.

im eloping



Omg im sorry chica.. sounds like u have a lot going on!!!
ALL places u want are booked?!!! OMGGGG!!! sorry =-(
spdy540 Posted:

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you have all of us
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by mybabylovesmoi

awww, don't be sad chica! you still have time to make friends but if you don't have a big bridal party, that's okay.

It doesn't make you a bad person or a mean person.





Thanks Anney,,, as i said just hurts u know...
I know i am not a bad person =-(
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by Chanwich

Aww, Veronica, I'm sorry you are dealing with all of this stupid stress from your supposed 'friends'. Honestly, weddings bring out people's worst, especially if they are jealous. As long as you are surrounded by people who love you and are there for YOU and FH, your day will be wonderful



Yep... I have became to see A LOT OF PPLS true Colors....
Wow and i am amazed and HURT by it....

Thanks
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by spdy540

you have all of us



aww thanks
Richiesgirl Posted:

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Veronica you are a good person. If not a GREAT person. However I really feel you should not worry about this and every one is right it is about you and your FH.
By choice I have only 3 girls in my bridal party and EVERYONE keeps telling me what about your cousins, and you have soo many friends. I chose 3 girls from each era in my life my bf from childhood, grade school and college. I couldn't and didn't want to deal with a 8 personal bridal party and I am sorry but it looks tacky IMO it looks like a quinceañera to me. So no worries-keeo your head up
hiswifey2011 Posted:

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my offer to be your bridesmaid is still on the table!!! we

VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by Richiesgirl

Veronica you are a good person. If not a GREAT person. However I really feel you should not worry about this and every one is right it is about you and your FH.
By choice I have only 3 girls in my bridal party and EVERYONE keeps telling me what about your cousins, and you have soo many friends. I chose 3 girls from each era in my life my bf from childhood, grade school and college. I couldn't and didn't want to deal with a 8 personal bridal party and I am sorry but it looks tacky IMO it looks like a quinceañera to me. So no worries-keeo your head up




Awww Thanks chica....
I know i get what ur saying.. i guess i am just hurt of how my so call 'friends' have turn out to be after being friends for years....
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by hiswifey2011

my offer to be your bridesmaid is still on the table!!! we <3 you veroooo!!! cheer up chica!!!




Im sorry i just have to ask this...
I wonder if when you (and many other brides) have said you would be my bridesmaid, if this is true or just to cheer me up....

Thanks J.... Im trying =-) Just hurt i guess
fdnybride163 Posted:

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Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by hiswifey2011

my offer to be your bridesmaid is still on the table!!! we <3 you veroooo!!! cheer up chica!!!




Im sorry i just have to ask this...
I wonder if when you (and many other brides) have said you would be my bridesmaid, if this is true or just to cheer me up....

Thanks J.... Im trying =-) Just hurt i guess



I WOULD TOTALLLLLLY BE A BRIDESMAID!!!!!!

we will play nice together at TWOTY ( ) and im game if your game!!!!

**Im going to start a business, rent a bridesmaid, i will be the perfect girl do whatever you want, whenever you want, and all you have to do is buy my dress!
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by fdnybride163


Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by hiswifey2011

my offer to be your bridesmaid is still on the table!!! we <3 you veroooo!!! cheer up chica!!!




Im sorry i just have to ask this...
I wonder if when you (and many other brides) have said you would be my bridesmaid, if this is true or just to cheer me up....

Thanks J.... Im trying =-) Just hurt i guess



I WOULD TOTALLLLLLY BE A BRIDESMAID!!!!!!

we will play nice together at TWOTY ( ) and im game if your game!!!!

**Im going to start a business, rent a bridesmaid, i will be the perfect girl do whatever you want, whenever you want, and all you have to do is buy my dress!




LOL im sorry but u jut got me laughin 'Rent a Bridesmaid'...
LoveyDovey Posted:

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Veronica!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im so sorry you are going through this! Like others said sometimes people out there are unable to see what a great person you are...it doesn't mean you are not a great person, they just don't see it...and you deserve people in your life that appreciate you!

You are a wonderful person! Everything will work out with or without a bridal party!

Remember the girl that posted here a few days ago talking about how horrible her bridal party is??? Yeah, well remember that! The grass is not always greener on the other side...I have 7 BP members and to be honest, Id be happy if I only had 1 of them maybe 2....bc they have not made my life easier or happier, it's just more stress!

all the fun, extra stuff for hte wedding is great but in the end, it doesnt matter, it's all just fluff...and what really matters is you and fh!
MNM0805 Posted:

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So sorry you are going through this! Its times like these when we find out who our true friends are. My Bridal party consists of 4 girls. My MOH has been my best friend from hs. The other 3 girls are cousins.
Hang in there! You have plenty of time before the wedding. Plus, you have all of us for the love and support. Your wedding day is all about you and your FH so you don't need anyone else up there with you guys. You two are becoming one! Yes its nice to have a bridal party but you know what when its all said in done, your FH will be the one there for you in the end!

So keep your chin up! No more tears! We all love you!
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey

Veronica!!!!!!!!!!!!

Im so sorry you are going through this! Like others said sometimes people out there are unable to see what a great person you are...it doesn't mean you are not a great person, they just don't see it...and you deserve people in your life that appreciate you!

You are a wonderful person! Everything will work out with or without a bridal party!

Remember the girl that posted here a few days ago talking about how horrible her bridal party is??? Yeah, well remember that! The grass is not always greener on the other side...I have 7 BP members and to be honest, Id be happy if I only had 1 of them maybe 2....bc they have not made my life easier or happier, it's just more stress!

all the fun, extra stuff for hte wedding is great but in the end, it doesnt matter, it's all just fluff...and what really matters is you and fh!



Yes its true.. and Yes i remember...
I think i am just SHOCKED of how everything is turning out..
But I NEED TO RELAX....
Like u and everyone else said it Our wedding will be AMAZING!!

Gracias!
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by MNM0805

So sorry you are going through this! Its times like these when we find out who our true friends are. My Bridal party consists of 4 girls. My MOH has been my best friend from hs. The other 3 girls are cousins.
Hang in there! You have plenty of time before the wedding. Plus, you have all of us for the love and support. Your wedding day is all about you and your FH so you don't need anyone else up there with you guys. You two are becoming one! Yes its nice to have a bridal party but you know what when its all said in done, your FH will be the one there for you in the end!

So keep your chin up! No more tears! We all love you!



No more tears and I hope i can keep it this way...
All of u are right...
Thank u for ebing here for me =-)
thanks! i appreciat it!
jgold910 Posted:

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Posted by JandS

F them!!! You're right, you're marrying the man of your dreams and that's what matters and if you need someone to help after July... I look GREAT in royal blue

FutureMrsDe Posted:

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Just think the less people in your bridal party the more attention is on you alone
nikki41579 Posted:

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Don't be sad. This is all about you and fh!

Just think you will have even less drama without a bp.

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