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Ok.. Ms Outgoing is in Tears now.. AGAIN!

Original post by VCanizalez

Im sorry
I know I know I always speak about this....

But i just cant get it over with!!!!!!!!!!

THIS SUCKS!!!!

I know i am marrying the MAN of my DREAMS.. the ONe and only!!!
But I thought I was a GOOD person.. I thought I was a GOOD friend!!!!!....
and No seeing everyone elses Bridal party.. and Brides reviews where I see them with the WHOLE bridal party, just got me to tears...
SO I AM CRYING LIKE A BABY NOW...

SUCK SUCKSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

evita2781 Posted:

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^^ this!

you know we love you V! I love yoU!! don't be sad!!!!
cc2011 Posted:

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I promise you it'll work out in the end!
IrishAli Posted:

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Don't fret. Your wedding will be amazing because you are amazing and awesome. And if there are 'friends' out there that do not see this, that it their problem.

We all love you!!!!!
Im getting Married Posted:

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It's best to be up there with just FH than people who are going to make you cry.

April_Luv Posted:

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Oooh V so sorry
You are a good person and dont doubt that. You just befriended the WRONG people thats all. Be greatful that all of this is in the open now and not later. But i know it still hurts.
Maybe you could befriend some great girls on this site and you never know maybe they could be your Bridesmaids... for you again.
KarynK Posted:

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Posted by VCanizalez

Im sorry
I know I know I always speak about this....

But i just cant get it over with!!!!!!!!!!

THIS SUCKS!!!!

I know i am marrying the MAN of my DREAMS.. the ONe and only!!!
But I thought I was a GOOD person.. I thought I was a GOOD friend!!!!!....
and No seeing everyone elses Bridal party.. and Brides reviews where I see them with the WHOLE bridal party, just got me to tears...
SO I AM CRYING LIKE A BABY NOW...

SUCK SUCKSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



I kinda know how you are feeling. I see those pics of the BP jumping in the air, or all the men holding the Bride, it gets to me too. I have a MOH and a Man of Honor, my FH has a Best Man. So we will not be having those 'fun' picks. BUT, on the good side of not having any or many BP, is the bullsh!t that goes with it.
So try to look at the otherside, read all those BP disaster posts, and feel good that you won't have to deal with that!
I hope this helped some
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsDe

Just think the less people in your bridal party the more attention is on you alone



Thnks.... True more attention....
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by nikki41579

Don't be sad. This is all about you and fh!

Just think you will have even less drama without a bp.


This is truee... Less drama...
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by evita2781

^^ this!

you know we love you V! I love yoU!! don't be sad!!!!


I love u too Evitaaaaa

Ur msg made me laugh lol (the one from the pic)
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by cc2011


I promise you it'll work out in the end!


Thanks
that is what im hoping =-)
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by IrishAli

Don't fret. Your wedding will be amazing because you are amazing and awesome. And if there are 'friends' out there that do not see this, that it their problem.

We all love you!!!!!




Thanks...
true it is their problem.....

Love all of u too!!!
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by Im getting Married

It's best to be up there with just FH than people who are going to make you cry.




Yeah true...
But i think just hurts the fact that some things turn out the oppostie way of what I thought...
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by April_Luv

Oooh V so sorry
You are a good person and dont doubt that. You just befriended the WRONG people thats all. Be greatful that all of this is in the open now and not later. But i know it still hurts.
Maybe you could befriend some great girls on this site and you never know maybe they could be your Bridesmaids... for you again.


Awww
Gracias Chica....
Thank u...
Maybe u know.. i guess i should just take it One day at a time...
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by KarynK

I kinda know how you are feeling. I see those pics of the BP jumping in the air, or all the men holding the Bride, it gets to me too. I have a MOH and a Man of Honor, my FH has a Best Man. So we will not be having those 'fun' picks. BUT, on the good side of not having any or many BP, is the bullsh!t that goes with it.
So try to look at the otherside, read all those BP disaster posts, and feel good that you won't have to deal with that!
I hope this helped some



Yes that is what happens.. I look at ALL of those pics and get sad bc I alwys thought I was going to get that!!!!


but i should just RELAX and Take it one step at a time.. I guess i never know what the FUTURE is bringin me =-)
Panamasweet Posted:

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Please try to not let this get to you. I went through the same thing and it really bothered me in the begining. I have decided that if these people are not there for me now its better they are not around at all. They never were your friends Veronica. I know its hard to see but you are really better off without them.

Its a shame but weddings really bring out the worse in people and i dont mean brides. It makes people show their true colors. you will have an amazing wedding with or without a large bp
MNM0805 Posted:

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Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by MNM0805

So sorry you are going through this! Its times like these when we find out who our true friends are. My Bridal party consists of 4 girls. My MOH has been my best friend from hs. The other 3 girls are cousins.
Hang in there! You have plenty of time before the wedding. Plus, you have all of us for the love and support. Your wedding day is all about you and your FH so you don't need anyone else up there with you guys. You two are becoming one! Yes its nice to have a bridal party but you know what when its all said in done, your FH will be the one there for you in the end!

So keep your chin up! No more tears! We all love you!



No more tears and I hope i can keep it this way...
All of u are right...
Thank u for ebing here for me =-)
thanks! i appreciat it!



You are very welcome! Thats what us fellow bride-to-bes do!! I'm glad the tears have stopped!
hiswifey2011 Posted:

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Posted by VCanizalez


Posted by hiswifey2011

my offer to be your bridesmaid is still on the table!!! we <3 you veroooo!!! cheer up chica!!!




Im sorry i just have to ask this...
I wonder if when you (and many other brides) have said you would be my bridesmaid, if this is true or just to cheer me up....

Thanks J.... Im trying =-) Just hurt i guess




Of course i would! 100%
VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by Panamasweet

Please try to not let this get to you. I went through the same thing and it really bothered me in the begining. I have decided that if these people are not there for me now its better they are not around at all. They never were your friends Veronica. I know its hard to see but you are really better off without them.

Its a shame but weddings really bring out the worse in people and i dont mean brides. It makes people show their true colors. you will have an amazing wedding with or without a large bp



Gracias S.....

True...
They were NOT my friends... REAL FRIENDS DONT DO THAT....

MrsTarricone2B Posted:

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I'm so sorry Veronica!!! I always tell FH that he's my only friend bc I know he's the only one who will be by my side no matter what!!! I've lost some friends since I'm engaged too, but if they're OK with not being here for me now than I don't need them in my future and you should feel the same way. You're an amazing, positive and fun girl and you should be treated like one. We love you V!!!!!
SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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Posted by MrsTarricone2B

I'm so sorry Veronica!!! I always tell FH that he's my only friend bc I know he's the only one who will be by my side no matter what!!! I've lost some friends since I'm engaged too, but if they're OK with not being here for me now than I don't need them in my future and you should feel the same way. You're an amazing, positive and fun girl and you should be treated like one. We love you V!!!!!



This exactly... cheer up V!!

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