ok my week stinks

kabo0831 Posted: Jul 12, 2007 09:49 AM

ok my week stinks

Well it started out with G-ma, then its my mom, and then i found out last night that my FH was electrial shock from a live wire and he now has no feel in his left hand i hope that it is just short trem. he didnt tell me becuase all of this was going on. Then today my boss knows what is going on and he was a really jurk to me and tell me that i cant leave early for my moms surgery and im so upset. I dont know where to turn and i dont want to leave and get fired. WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME????

Sorry for long vent. thanks for listening

enewedding Posted: Jul 12, 2007 09:58 AM

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I am so sorry for what you are going through.

Just think, it is almost the weekend and hopefully next week will be so much better

MegBert Posted: Jul 12, 2007 10:04 AM

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wow I cannot believe he wont let you leave early...I got 2 days off for my FMIL's surgery on the 26th...she is having a double masectomy...the poor woman is terrified and needs us all there...maybe talk to him again...try crying...men hate when we cry

DINAAMATUCCIO Posted: Jul 12, 2007 10:07 AM

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ok I know you probably want to walk right out of there!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hear ya!! your mom will be fine with her surgery ,,... I went through it last year with FH if you want to know anything about the whole healing process or anything please ask !!! Hang in there .. you know it feels good to cry if you have to go in the bathroom and let it out ... do it it helps me sometimes because if i hold it in i get bed chest pains ..
As for your FH the numbness should go away little by little on its own ..
Lets say THINK POSITIVE because your grandma is doing good! you said she is in rehab... thats a good thing, shes getting better! hang in there and if you have any questions or just want to talk .. i'll be here!

mdawg Posted: Jul 12, 2007 10:49 AM

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keep your chin up girl. maybe you could try talking to your boss and telling him that its really important to you that you do this, and youll make up whatever you have to if you could go be with your mother for her surgery. its so wrong. blah. im so sorry sweetie. :(

tinadansr Posted: Jul 12, 2007 11:45 AM

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Ohh hun I'm so sorry.....i hope for a speedy recovery for your mom and g'ma...........have a glass or bottle of wine!!!

Anthonysgirl Posted: Jul 12, 2007 12:08 PM

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aww i'm so sorry that this is happening to you! Just try to stay calm although, I know it is really hard and I would probably just want to walk right out. Your mom will be fine don't worry and your FH should be fine with a little time. Try to think positive and think happy thoughts. We are all here for you if you need to talk!