OK random question time! Its a game!

Ready, set, GO!

I guess I should explain. I am proposing a game where the first poster asks a question, then when you answer you ask your own question, and the next person answers that question and poses their own....to keep it going and going!!!

Sooo my question is:

When you were little, at what age did you want to/think you would get married?

A: I always thought 25. and I'll be getting married at 24!

When I was a child I never wanted to get married. I eventually did at 24 because everyone said it was 'time'...me and my ex had dated for 6 years. Big mistake...long story. I finally now, at the ripe old age of 38, feel like I really want to get married.

Question...If you could have any musician play at your wedding who would it be? I would have Bon Jovi!! I love them

Ah ha! As as I reading your question I already answered Bon Jovi before I even saw youy answer lol. So yes I would want him to.

Question: If you had to narrow it down, what is the 1 thing at your wedding that you couldn't do without?!

If I could have a musician to play at my wedding, it would be Morrissey~i love him, I'd just be afraid he'd depress my guests.

Question- what has been your fave part of planning do far? Mine's been the whole designing the invites part

I would love to have DMB play at my wedding!!

If you won the Mega Millions a month before your wedding... what (if any) is ONE thing you would change about your reception?

Ok...being a very 'budget friendly' bride I think I have carefully chosen everything for my wedding. I am only spending money on things and vendors I love. But the one thing I think I couldn't do without is the DJ...he's awesome.

If I won mega millions I would definitely book a honeymoon with just me and FH in Europe. As of now we are having a 'family' honeymoon to Florida...not so romantic!

Have you been surprised with your FH during the wedding planning process? I have...he is so much more into the details than I thought he would be.

**ETA My favorite part has been being able to do everything my way It is all my vision....with a little help from FH, and it's great!!

Ok I'm gonna answer the last three questions:

one thing I can't do without: my gown! I love it!

fave part of planning: hair and makeup trials! oh and e-pics!

mega millions question: I love my venue but if I had the money to go for a similar space but bigger I would - there were a whole bunch that I didnt even look at because of hefty site fees even before the ridiculous per person price. My venue is a great compromise but a bit small!

I have been surprised by FH! He has been more involved in some things than I expected!

I forgot to add a question:

If you had unlimited funds would you still have gone with your gown? If not, which designer/gown would you have loved to go with?

Ummm no not really surprised with FH. He has been the way I expected him to be. Helpful with some things, but I do the research and finding a couple options and then he picks out of those options. He surprised me when he suggested we look into the church option more, and we are now getting married in a church which I'm happy about.

Who has been the most helpful with your planning? Were you expecting this? Who did you expect would help you more, but hasn't been a part of the wedding planning process?

**and megamillions...HONEYMOON!!!!! Italy...Greece...then Fiji/Tahiti for like a month :) I wish!!!!!!

My gown only cost $399 on sale...he he....so yes I think I would have definitely gone with another gown, maybe even have gone for the Kleinfeld experience, although I really do love mine!!

FH and I are the only ones planning everything, and I wouldn't have it any other way!

ughhhh helpful - most, my planner! no one else has really been helping much!

i thought my mom would be more so but its hard cuz she isnt here. i also thought FMIL would be more helpful. she's involved but always makes me anxious and questions my choices

so basically its me and my coordinator doing it!

Forgot a question....how long have you been planning your wedding? Would you have wanted more or less time to plan?

A: We have been planning since January, so it will be a 8 month process, which I feel is perfect for my because with too much time to think about things I would make myself crazy!!

We got engaged in Dec...and getting married August, so it will 8 1/2 months. It's perfect for me. I would have liked shorter actually, but my sister is in Australia until June. I like getting things done, and not having too much time to question myself. Plus, I just want to marry him already hehehe Wouldn't want a long engagement. I'm already antsy to be wed!

Do you feel things changed when you got engaged? How?

hmm good questions:

our engagement will be almost exactly a year, and i think its a good amount of time for me. i would have liked to do the wedding in sept or oct but we have too many other things those months

i do feel things started to change when we got engaged. i feel much more like a unit/family now, and i feel as though others see us that way too. we are definitely coming into our own as a couple!

question: if you could have your HM anywhere in the world, where would you go?

I would go on an African Safari, or to Figi/Thailand but FH is a bad traveler and vetoed those ideas.

If I could go anywhere on HM i would go to the beach in thailand and bali.

If you could could make it so your pet could talk for just a day, would you have him/her preside over your marriage ceremony?

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Posted by Clover23

If I could go anywhere on HM i would go to the beach in thailand and bali.

If you could could make it so your pet could talk for just a day, would you have him/her preside over your marriage ceremony?

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LOVE IT! no, not preside, but maybe give a toast. he would totally sound like the drunken/cracked out uncle!

OMG...Love this question!! I have two doggies and my FH is totally in love with them. I swear he's marrying me for my dogs! I would totally have them preside over the wedding...as it is I am having a custom cake topper made with them on it so I don't leave them out!

ok new question to keep it going:

what would a deal-breaker be for you? something FH could do that would 100% mean the end of the relationship?

mine: cheating, hitting me, hitting the dog

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Posted by weddingbees

if he started smoking, cheated on me, doesn't help me asssinate my FSIL.

kidding.

sort of.





what is the song you're looking forward to dancing to at the your wedding the most?:

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somebody to love- queen