ok this is a downer question.

Original post by allornil

May 10, 2010 03:15 PM

I'm a bit older than you guys, but I'm noticing a LOT of people I went to school with are divorced and I mean like...a LOT.

Two of my college friends have announced their divorces within the last few months. Both of these are shocking.

I, myself am divorced and that's why I've always been so hesitant to remarry.

Anyone else nervous about that? I mean, sometimes I think about it and I get nauseous.

GlitterBox24 Posted: May 13, 2010 02:45 PM

Re: ok this is a downer question.

I think about it also. This is FH second marriage.
ofcourse i see my wedding lasting forever, but life is crazy. and godforbid 15 years down things change, im not going to be one saying that divorce is not option, becuase sometimes it is the best. People make mistakes of staying with each other becuz of children, because of what ppl will say, becuase you are embarrassed and IMHO thats not right to me. You end up being miserable and unhappy. This life is 1 and very short. If you are no longer happy, if FH cheats, or life jsut happens, i will accept it. (Hopefully... jejeje, atleast thats how i try to view it)

leesah85 Posted: May 13, 2010 05:42 PM

Re: ok this is a downer question.

Posted by mybabylovesmoi

It does **** to think about divorce but it is a sad reality these days.

The only way I’d ever divorce FH is if he became abusive to me or our children or he cheated. I don’t see either ever happening.

I am more anxious about both of us becoming completely boring than divorce

HAHAHA ITA!