Okay Gals...I need Your Advice...FYI, Long Vent...

Okay...so in the midst of my happiness of being chosen BOTW, I'm having some issues at home.

My brother and I just had a HUGE blow out. On Friday, it was FH's bday and my brother had gotten 4 tickets to today's METS game--he was going to give 2 tix to FH and the other two were going to my brother's GF and her dad. Anyhow, he wound up NOT giving them to FH and giving him money instead. NOW also, FH already was going to the game with his godson, his godsons dad and brother. His godsons dad actually bought the tix for FH as a gift, so keep this in mind.

So today, my brother's GF and him get into a fight and she tells him that she's NOT going to the game. So he texts FH and says, 'Can I have the money back that I gave you and you take these 4 tickets so I don't lose out on ALL of the money?' Now, this wouldn't be a problem IMO, but since FH was going with other people who PAID for 4 other tix, I thought it was rude of my brother to ask for this to be done. FH was going to do it because he does not want to argue with my brother BUT I flat out refused and I marched downstairs to my brother and said that he was being REALLY disrespectful and rude and putting FH in an uncomfortable position. He then said that he wasn't and that it was 'fuc*in ridiculous and that it was unfair he was going to lose out on so much money' and that's when I LOST IT. I told him that it was not FH's fault and that why should other people lose out on money for problems that he has?? And then he just went off on me and told me to get the eff out of his face, etc.

Anyway, now I feel like absolutely dog poo because my mom is really upset and crying (she is super sensitive) and my brother is cussing and yelling up a storm and FH told me that I should have just let him take the tix and avoid a fight.

Was I wrong ladies? What should I do now? Should I apologize?