Okay, I have to let this out...Sorry

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Posted by MrsStefan

He told me that he hates them (which I know is true), but if his bridal party wants to get him one then he feels he can't say no. .

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That is my FH too. I know the bachelor party will get him one - they keep telling him they are gonna get him a transvestite midget They know he hates strippers and I think they just want to torture him. I told him I dont want to hear any details.

Along these lines, we went out to eat with FH's whole family and bachelor party came up, and FFIL starts going on and on about the stripper and how FH will be drunk and who know what will happen. Of course I went home and cried, I hate that guy

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Posted by JeanineHubert

I have a really big prob w/strip clubs. We are starting to organize our bachelor/bachelerette parties and FH tells me he doesn't want to go to one (hes never been).
But he says that doesn't mean that his brother/my brother won't take him to one.

It's not that I don't trust him, or I think he will do anything...But the THOUGHT of another girl grinding up and down on his C*ck grosses me out and just pisses me off.

They are going to go to AC-I told him no lap dances and no bottomless...

What are YOUR thoughts on strip clubs?
I know this has been asked a million times, but I want to post this here....

Girls who DONT have a prob w/it....please try to make me feel better LOL

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I know this probably wont make you feel better, but I feel the EXACT same way you do..you read my mind. I hate that they go, the whole thing is ridiculous...sorry.

I worked as a waitress and a bartender in Ten's in NYC a few years ago and I can tell you this.. There was NO touching, NO grinding.. and certainly NO SEX in the Champagne Room.. Things like that NEVER went on where I worked.. There are places that you would have to spend your life fortune to get some 'extra' treatment, but those are few and far btwn and trust me, on all of our budgets right now, we can't afford that

Plus, most of the girls that I became friends with, were doing it to put themselves thru school or take care of a family.. There are some greedy hooches out there, but more genuine down to earth girls..

HTH

I dont have an issue w/ them. I think its what guys do. We have our things that they dont understand. This is theirs. Its usually all in good fun (at least I know my FI and his friends are 'clean' and wont make it disgusting).
I actually told Matt that he SHOULD have strippers bc itll be the last pair of t*ts he will see besides mine

BP are more for the guys in the bridal party, and better yet the best man, than they are for the groom himself, and besides, would your man every touch a stripper? every guy I know goes to get a good laugh and maybe see some fake boobs...and not much more. As for a lap dance, as long as my FH doesn't pay for it, let his friends waste their money to see him squirm

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Posted by elmtobe

BP are more for the guys in the bridal party, and better yet the best man, than they are for the groom himself, and besides, would your man every touch a stripper? every guy I know goes to get a good laugh and maybe see some fake boobs...and not much more. As for a lap dance, as long as my FH doesn't pay for it, let his friends waste their money to see him squirm

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I agree. It is a way for the guys to embarrass the groom to be.

My fh went to AC for his Bach. party and he had a stripper at the hotel- I didnt love the idea however,when they went to 'check out' the strip club it was really skeevy- they got this girl- who is a 35 preschool teacher- she did some lap dances- my father was there, his father was there, and my best guy friend was there...She left after 45 minutes- maybe an hour- At a strip club the same lap dances occur and it can last a whole lot longer- I saw all the pictures...and he told me all the stories- Its kind of humorous actually-

Try not to stress out about it- and even though its not fun to think about- remember its mostly for the single guy friends he has anyway- they are the ones who really want the whole stripper thing- you FH is probably just going along for the ride...Your FH is coming home to YOU and only YOU!