Okay my FH is a PITA!

I've been asking him, OVER and OVER again, what do you want for the holidays. We are pagan, so we celebrate Yule on the 21 and Xmas with his parents on the 25. So I have been asking him every darn day for weeks now and I keep getting I don't know! The he gets mad when I hound him! I've given him chooses too...
an Ipod
a cell phone
a new pair of glasses or contacts
a video game
a pompiolet
clothes
jewuly
a nice razor
books


He still won't give me an inch!

I know, but to be honest I really don't know which of theses he really wants. Plus I don't want to give him the wrong kind of phone or game or whatever. Because then I got it wrong it was a waste of money. thanks though

OK miss pagan - TRY being engaged to a Buddhist - when you ask him - what do you want -

I don't need any more attachments - they are all just material things...

I'm happy with what I have

Don't get me anything...

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Posted by EmberLynn

I know, but to be honest I really don't know which of theses he really wants. Plus I don't want to give him the wrong kind of phone or game or whatever. Because then I got it wrong it was a waste of money. thanks though

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you sound like me! i got my fi clothes, but i want to get him something bigger and he keeps saying he doesn't know what he wants. well if he doesn't know, and i don't know, who does?!? the funds are low so i don't want to be wasting money on something he doesn't want or need. grr. ~lacey

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

OK miss pagan - TRY being engaged to a Buddhist - when you ask him - what do you want -

I don't need any more attachments - they are all just material things...

I'm happy with what I have

Don't get me anything...

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then my dear you get off easy! I so far have spend money on a nice out in NYC - dinner tavern on the green taken there by limo and then to the tree - Billy joel tickets - clothes- shoes- work out gear....and his b-day is x-mass day - wanta trade!

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Posted by lacey&mark

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Posted by EmberLynn

I know, but to be honest I really don't know which of theses he really wants. Plus I don't want to give him the wrong kind of phone or game or whatever. Because then I got it wrong it was a waste of money. thanks though

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you sound like me! i got my fi clothes, but i want to get him something bigger and he keeps saying he doesn't know what he wants. well if he doesn't know, and i don't know, who does?!? the funds are low so i don't want to be wasting money on something he doesn't want or need. grr. ~lacey

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MEN!

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

OK miss pagan - TRY being engaged to a Buddhist - when you ask him - what do you want -

I don't need any more attachments - they are all just material things...

I'm happy with what I have

Don't get me anything...

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Thats what he says. 'I've never been a materalist person, and so and so on!' I want to B**** slap him!

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Posted by EmberLynn

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

OK miss pagan - TRY being engaged to a Buddhist - when you ask him - what do you want -

I don't need any more attachments - they are all just material things...

I'm happy with what I have

Don't get me anything...

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Thats what he says. 'I've never been a materalist person, and so and so on!' I want to B**** slap him!

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your funny!

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Posted by kellwolfe



then my dear you get off easy! I so far have spend money on a nice out in NYC - dinner tavern on the green taken there by limo and then to the tree - Billy joel tickets - clothes- shoes- work out gear....and his b-day is x-mass day - wanta trade!

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actually - I was wondering if maybe I could spend Xmas with you???

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Posted by Laura&Phil

It's a tough situation....FH and I are only exchanging little things this year due to the wedding and budget. I'm making my gifts this year but I am finishing up a ceramics class and photography class so it worked out- my class projects are great gifts! If I had the time I would have knited him something!! If you are crafty, maybe you can meke him something?!

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I could paint him a rock and say it's a paper weight...

I could make a plaster mold of my hands...

Umm - a fingerpainting?

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Posted by EmberLynn

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Thats what he says. 'I've never been a materalist person, and so and so on!' I want to B**** slap him!

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b!tch slap a Buddhist?????



do you want me to come back as a dung beetle???

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

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Posted by EmberLynn

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Thats what he says. 'I've never been a materalist person, and so and so on!' I want to B**** slap him!

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b!tch slap a Buddhist?????



do you want me to come back as a dung beetle???

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no no no no no no no! I ment my FH. he says the same thing!

B!tch slap a pagan? Don't you know the three-fold rule???

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Posted by lipglossjunky73

B!tch slap a pagan? Don't you know the three-fold rule???

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ahhh... thats wiccan. LOL

oops - I thought it was the same - seemd like it was back when I was practicing... I'll slink back into my ignorant Buddhist corner over here...