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Okay, so I'm sure this is a stupid question....

esb980 Posted:

Okay, so I'm sure this is a stupid question....

But when people respond 'no' do they usally enclose a check?

mka06 Posted:

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Sometimes... some people might send a gift later on... others include a check with the reply card.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted:

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so far for us - Nope.
my mom was saying yesterday though that that is usally what is done. oh well.
esb980 Posted:

Re: Okay, so I'm sure this is a stupid question....


Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

so far for us - Nope.
my mom was saying yesterday though that that is usally what is done. oh well.



Yeah, I usally send a check..... but so far for us no checks....
ChrissynRicky Posted:

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We got a few No's w/checks...

Maybride519 Posted:

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I wouldn't say usually. I also wouldn't think that if they don't send it with the reply, that it means you will not get a gift. It may come when it is closer to the wedding.

mka06 Posted:

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I have to say - I don't always include a check when I reply no. I had no clue that that was what you were 'supposed' to do. I like to send cards and write a personal note, so I usually send a gift later.

cmastro25 Posted:

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Is that the 'etiquette' when responding 'no'. I had no idea. I thought you just gave a gift when you were close family or something.

Pmpkn087 Posted:

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no. they usually send it at a later time, if at all.

evnme Posted:

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i've been wondering the same thing. out of the 11 no's we've gotten, only 3 have sent checks...

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