ok...I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!

We haven't asked our BP yet since we're still unsure of things. so far we're at 8 each...

We kind of want to add one more on each side, but we feel like it CRAZYYY!!!!!!!!

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Posted by soon2BMrsMcD

We haven't asked our BP yet since we're still unsure of things. so far we're at 8 each...

We kind of want to add one more on each side, but we feel like it CRAZYYY!!!!!!!!

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honestly 1 more wont make a big difference, so if this is somebody you really want to be a part of it then go for it...its not for everybody i know but do what makes you happy

i dont think 8 is so bad - as long as every single person is someone you truly WANT and no one you are adding bc you feel like you have to!

my cousin had 15 on each side - one of the reasons i am only having like three LOL

We have 7, we were thinking 8, but we decided that we didnt want to have that many. However there are times I have thought about once again adding some more people on that mean alot to me. I would say if you truly want those people there PUT THEM IN!!!!
Do what makes you happy!

ahhhhh!!! thanks girls!!

why must we have such amazing friends and family?!?!?!?

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Posted by soon2BMrsMcD

well the majority of both sides is both of our families....we are both really close with our cousins!!

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same with me!! A lot of family we have a pretty big BP too

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Posted by soon2BMrsMcD

well the majority of both sides is both of our families....we are both really close with our cousins!!

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you cant get rid of family so i say go for it!

ETA: by that I mean that you will have them in your lives forever so it is 'safe' to put them in your BP!

we have all family too except for jenn and her little sister geena - so we are stuck with everyone for the rest of our lives - we know we made the right choices for our BP lol

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Posted by soon2BMrsMcD

We haven't asked our BP yet since we're still unsure of things. so far we're at 8 each...

We kind of want to add one more on each side, but we feel like it CRAZYYY!!!!!!!!

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Andrea....thats redonculous! who are you thinking?? we dont have that many cousins!!

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Posted by jjk1007

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Posted by soon2BMrsMcD

We haven't asked our BP yet since we're still unsure of things. so far we're at 8 each...

We kind of want to add one more on each side, but we feel like it CRAZYYY!!!!!!!!

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Andrea....thats redonculous! who are you thinking?? we dont have that many cousins!!

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think about my cousins--on both sides....garrett's cousins...who I'm VERY close with....and of course life long friends!

it adds up

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Posted by jdienstag

I think of it like this. The only people that will be in my bridal party are the people that I know for sure I will be close with ten to twenty years down the road. I know so many people who were close w/ people for a a few yaers and now they look back at their album and have to look at someone that they havent spoken to in years. I have 10 girls in mine including flower girl and 2 jr. bridesmaids. Most are family and 3 are friends that I have been friends with for 15 years or more. Good Luck with your decision

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Thanks!! I know, my mom's and FH's mom look at their albums and think the same thing!! That's why I'm keeping it to family!! And one or two life-long friends!

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Posted by jdienstag

I think of it like this. The only people that will be in my bridal party are the people that I know for sure I will be close with ten to twenty years down the road. I know so many people who were close w/ people for a a few yaers and now they look back at their album and have to look at someone that they havent spoken to in years. I have 10 girls in mine including flower girl and 2 jr. bridesmaids. Most are family and 3 are friends that I have been friends with for 15 years or more. Good Luck with your decision

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exactly!
we are having
FH's brother
FH's cousin
my cousin
3 of our nieces

and then my best friend who i have been best friends with for about 15 years and her little sister who I have known since she was born..

so i am pretty sure I am stuck with these people forever, whether i want to be or not LOL

ETA: this was important to me bc my cousin AND my sister had people in their BP that have STILL never seen their kids ( my niece is EIGHT now ) that is so sad to me and i never want to look at my pictures and think 'wow i havent spoken to her in years'

nicole, me, your dads 2 nieces, janet, Tre

I cant think of any other obvious ones.....

(im assuming I'll be in your BP...lol)

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Posted by jjk1007

nicole, me, your dads 2 nieces, janet, Tre

I cant think of any other obvious ones.....

(im assuming I'll be in your BP...lol)

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uh oh this could get awkward.

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by jjk1007

nicole, me, your dads 2 nieces, janet, Tre

I cant think of any other obvious ones.....

(im assuming I'll be in your BP...lol)

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uh oh this could get awkward.

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Yeah I guess....

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Posted by ant n tilde

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Posted by jjk1007

nicole, me, your dads 2 nieces, janet, Tre

I cant think of any other obvious ones.....

(im assuming I'll be in your BP...lol)

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uh oh this could get awkward.

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lol....Ann and I are wayyyy beyond awkward!