ok...listen please..

meniasta Posted: Mar 10, 2006 02:58 PM

ok...listen please..

hi to all,
yes i am new but when i post a new topic hardly ever somebody replyies to it...i see girls that they say a word and everyone is responding ...i don't now why beacouse i never went for gtg or i don't live in their neighberhood or i am diffrent?? i don;t now ...is just i am sharing the same feeling with you all being a bride and i need some support too...i am just so sad right now....maybe i will stop coming in here

ZuzusPetals Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:01 PM

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I'm sorry your are feeling this way. I don't post too much anymore but when I do its usually on the BHB boards. I feel like that board moves more quickly and has more substance. Anyway, I wouldnt take it to personally. Stay with us

sarahthegreat Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:02 PM

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you really can't take it to heart...people don't repond to every thread there is.

leese Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:04 PM

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i don't understand. you posted three posts starting at 2:47. It's 3:02 - and people are starting to respond.

it take a bit for these things to load up, people finish reading other posts.

i'm not understanding these posts about people not being interested in certain people's posts. i have 4K posts - I respond to A LOT and MOST people?!

Please give it at least twenty mins. to get your three topics 'started' about... Thanks sweetie!

spooks Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:05 PM

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I'm sorry you feel like that. I sometimes feel like that too - like my posts are stupid or something. I think it is also hard b/c there are so many different topics and so I know I don't respond to everything either - sometimes I just want to post and search but not respond, etc. Keep posting and bump a message if you really need some responses.

SuzBride Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:08 PM

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Posted by leese

Please give it at least twenty mins. to get your three topics 'started' about... Thanks sweetie!

I agree - especially during the day when people are at work and posting (), posting tends to come in spurts (I guess between working). Some of my posts have gotten no responses and some have gotten tons of responses - I'm not sure why some posts are picked up and not others (oh wells!)

meniasta Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:10 PM

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thank youuuu

lipglossjunky73 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:25 PM

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Hi date twin!!!

Sometimes I post and people don't respond for a while, and I need to bump it up a few times... sometimes people respond right away, sometimes they take a while to respond - sometimes they never respond at all - don't take it personally - it just happens sometimes...

Also - sometimes I posted days ago, and someone finds the post, and responds to it, and then everyone starts responding!!!

No rhyme or reason to it - keep posting - you'll have people respond!!!

enjft Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:32 PM

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dont take it personal. I am a heavy poster and still get ignored.

DCSFreez Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:38 PM

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It makes me sad for poeple to feel this way! FM me whenever I love to talk weddings1

pigs222seal Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:42 PM

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You can FM me anytime 8-5pm M-F (when I'm at work)...I would love to give you my advice; its like we can chat!! Hang in there.

hsacks23r Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:42 PM

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Posted by enjft

dont take it personal. I am a heavy poster and still get ignored.

same with me

hmpena Posted: Mar 10, 2006 03:49 PM

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Posted by leese

i don't understand. you posted three posts starting at 2:47. It's 3:02 - and people are starting to respond.

it take a bit for these things to load up, people finish reading other posts.

i'm not understanding these posts about people not being interested in certain people's posts. i have 4K posts - I respond to A LOT and MOST people?!

Please give it at least twenty mins. to get your three topics 'started' about... Thanks sweetie!

Lisa,

I couldn't have said it better myself. Please be patient when posting a topic. Sometimes people read something and want to write a thoughtful answer. Like Lisa, I have a lot of posts and usually respond whenever there is a question. During the day, many of us are at work and may not have the time to respond to every post. If it's not answered in a little while, it could be because people really don't know the answer or that people aren't understand the question.

SIBride06 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 04:01 PM

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Posted by hmpena

Posted by leese

i don't understand. you posted three posts starting at 2:47. It's 3:02 - and people are starting to respond.

it take a bit for these things to load up, people finish reading other posts.

i'm not understanding these posts about people not being interested in certain people's posts. i have 4K posts - I respond to A LOT and MOST people?!

Please give it at least twenty mins. to get your three topics 'started' about... Thanks sweetie!

Lisa,

I couldn't have said it better myself. Please be patient when posting a topic. Sometimes people read something and want to write a thoughtful answer. Like Lisa, I have a lot of posts and usually respond whenever there is a question. During the day, many of us are at work and may not have the time to respond to every post. If it's not answered in a little while, it could be because people really don't know the answer or that people aren't understand the question.

Well said ladies.. This is not a popularity contest. although some people may feel that way for whatever reason.. Please be patient... Ahhhhhh im at work.. i cant type too fast ha ha ha

meniasta Posted: Mar 10, 2006 04:03 PM

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this has nothing to do with being popular........not me.....ok??? this has to do with all your help!!

SIBride06 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 04:06 PM

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Posted by meniasta

this has nothing to do with being popular........not me.....ok??? this has to do with all your help!!

Chill.!!!. No one here is saying anything against you!!! I just dont understand why you (or anyone) would feel that way - thats it.

stephanief Posted: Mar 10, 2006 04:08 PM

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Posted by SIBride06

Posted by meniasta

this has nothing to do with being popular........not me.....ok??? this has to do with all your help!!

Chill.!!!. No one here is saying anything against you!!! I just dont understand why you (or anyone) would feel that way - thats it.

now now ladies, claws away

SIBride06 Posted: Mar 10, 2006 04:10 PM

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Posted by stephanief

Posted by SIBride06

Posted by meniasta

this has nothing to do with being popular........not me.....ok??? this has to do with all your help!!

Chill.!!!. No one here is saying anything against you!!! I just dont understand why you (or anyone) would feel that way - thats it.

now now ladies, claws away

'Im a lover, not a fighter' -
Kurt Cobain

stephanief Posted: Mar 10, 2006 04:12 PM

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Posted by SIBride06

Posted by stephanief

Posted by SIBride06

Posted by meniasta

this has nothing to do with being popular........not me.....ok??? this has to do with all your help!!

Chill.!!!. No one here is saying anything against you!!! I just dont understand why you (or anyone) would feel that way - thats it.

now now ladies, claws away

'Im a lover, not a fighter' -
Kurt Cobain

JessicaM. Posted: Mar 10, 2006 04:16 PM

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Posted by SIBride06

Posted by stephanief

Posted by SIBride06

Posted by meniasta

this has nothing to do with being popular........not me.....ok??? this has to do with all your help!!

Chill.!!!. No one here is saying anything against you!!! I just dont understand why you (or anyone) would feel that way - thats it.

now now ladies, claws away

'Im a lover, not a fighter' -
Kurt Cobain

Janie!

seriously though, relax and take it in stride. NO ONE on the boards gets tons of posts on all of their threads. the simple fact is some are most interesting, provocative, attention calling than others....some get a rush of interest right away while others are slow burners...in this instance, you didn't post a question or opinion- you made two statements...no real question...sometimes you can only say YAY or congrats so many times in a day (not that this makes your happiness any less valid)

if we took everything that happens personally on this site. there'd be far MORE fights than what we occassionally get.