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ok...listen please..

Original post by meniasta

hi to all,
yes i am new but when i post a new topic hardly ever somebody replyies to it...i see girls that they say a word and everyone is responding ...i don't now why beacouse i never went for gtg or i don't live in their neighberhood or i am diffrent?? i don;t now ...is just i am sharing the same feeling with you all being a bride and i need some support too...i am just so sad right now....maybe i will stop coming in here
SweetCin704 Posted:

Re: ok...listen please..


Posted by SIBride06


Posted by hmpena


Posted by leese

i don't understand. you posted three posts starting at 2:47. It's 3:02 - and people are starting to respond.

it take a bit for these things to load up, people finish reading other posts.

i'm not understanding these posts about people not being interested in certain people's posts. i have 4K posts - I respond to A LOT and MOST people?!

Please give it at least twenty mins. to get your three topics 'started' about... Thanks sweetie!



Lisa,

I couldn't have said it better myself. Please be patient when posting a topic. Sometimes people read something and want to write a thoughtful answer. Like Lisa, I have a lot of posts and usually respond whenever there is a question. During the day, many of us are at work and may not have the time to respond to every post. If it's not answered in a little while, it could be because people really don't know the answer or that people aren't understand the question.



Well said ladies.. This is not a popularity contest. although some people may feel that way for whatever reason.. Please be patient... Ahhhhhh im at work.. i cant type too fast ha ha ha



AMEN....I agree fully....
Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted:

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Posted by JessicaM.


Posted by SIBride06


Posted by stephanief


Posted by SIBride06


Posted by meniasta

this has nothing to do with being popular........not me.....ok??? this has to do with all your help!!



Chill.!!!. No one here is saying anything against you!!! I just dont understand why you (or anyone) would feel that way - thats it.



now now ladies, claws away



'Im a lover, not a fighter' -
Kurt Cobain



Janie!

seriously though, relax and take it in stride. NO ONE on the boards gets tons of posts on all of their threads. the simple fact is some are most interesting, provocative, attention calling than others....some get a rush of interest right away while others are slow burners...in this instance, you didn't post a question or opinion- you made two statements...no real question...sometimes you can only say YAY or congrats so many times in a day (not that this makes your happiness any less valid)

if we took everything that happens personally on this site. there'd be far MORE fights than what we occassionally get.



exactly
bridy06 Posted:

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Honestly - I really only reply if there is a pic in a thread.

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