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Older Relatives

soontobermrsg Posted:

Older Relatives

My FH and I were talking about the older relatives who live here on Staten Island. We think it might be too much for some of them to drive all the way to Smithtown and then back to Staten Island late at night. We obviously will have rooms set up in case they want to book and stay overnight but if they don't, do you think we should get a shuttle or something to go from SI to Smithtown and then back after the reception? Any idea how much something like that might cost?

Kimberley2015 Posted:

Older Relatives

I would ask the older relatives if they feel comfortable staying at the hotel first, then take it from there. In the interim make some calls and find out how much it would cost. See what would be most cost effective and convenient for them. You never know they may actually not mind stay at the hotel after your wedding.

killerqueen Posted:

Older Relatives

Do you have other family that could drive them? That way you don't have to worry about it, but you know they're taken care of?

My only real older relative is my grandma, but I know my mom is going to be driving her, and my great aunt and uncle are stubborn old people who refuse to not drive themselves everywhere (which, good for them really, because they still can)
soontobermrsg Posted:

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Posted by killerqueen

Do you have other family that could drive them? That way you don't have to worry about it, but you know they're taken care of?

My only real older relative is my grandma, but I know my mom is going to be driving her, and my great aunt and uncle are stubborn old people who refuse to not drive themselves everywhere (which, good for them really, because they still can)



There is a group of older people, plus his Aunt and Uncle who aren't 'old' but are sickly (sort-of), and his parents who are not old but will complain about driving LOL So I don't know.
soontobermrsg Posted:

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Posted by Kimberley2015

I would ask the older relatives if they feel comfortable staying at the hotel first, then take it from there. In the interim make some calls and find out how much it would cost. See what would be most cost effective and convenient for them. You never know they may actually not mind stay at the hotel after your wedding.



I am actually going to do this, great idea. Thanks!

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